My brain is way too analytical.

[Elise.m]

Sounds like you don't respect your friend.

You're wrong. I have tons of respect for her. How could I not? She totally believes in something that (to me) is not physically real and no one can fully prove. But, it works out for her. That's her deal, not mine.

Ever think she may not respect my beliefs since she's trying to force god on me?

Actually, I think you're simply giving humans too much credit.

Most humans DON'T clean up their homes if they are actually abandoning them (as opposed to selling or passing them on).
They leave them in horrendous states of disorder, full of trash and rotting food, and worse.

The only reason humans clean up their home before they leave is so that the next person to get it will be pleased with it, and will think highly of them. This only applies if they're selling or giving it away. So, it's a social thing. (A clean home also attracts buyers, so that's value, there).

Truly abandoned homes are rarely left totally cleared out, let alone actually clean. People take only what they want with them, and leave the rest.

Or just to get our down payment back on the place