ok i sold a spider female to a guy a few weeks ago. i popped this girl several times throughout me have having her and she popped female everytime. i am no pro but i have not had a customer ever come back until now. he said he took her to a friend of his (never stated if he was a vet) and had her probed. and his friend said he thinks shes a he. i will not exchange with fear his "friend" may of wounded her. what do yall think. keep in mind he has had her for about 3 weeks why only checking now.