I understand what you are saying, my only point is I think the op's intent was not to demonize anyone (I see not names in the post), but to ask the question. Could it have been asked differently? Of course it could have, but as I said .. if you made a purchase, you are new o everything and fear maybe something isn't right, most people to stop and think about the wording .. they want assurance and information.
Me thinks you have been hurt once or twice bad and have disdain for anyone having emotions or questioning the "experts".