I've been with my gf for nearly 4 years. We don't live together but spend just about every moment outside of work at each others' apartments.
My reptiles are 100% my pets and my responsibility but she has cared for them when I've gone on vacation visiting family. She has never fed snakes because she feels bad for the rodents (though is quite understanding about their diet despite loving cute fuzzy animals), but she would if I was unable to feed them myself. She is also quite scared of "big snakes", which is anything adult ball python sized and bigger, but I'm working with her on that as my carpet python grows![]()