I hope that if or when we decide to do this that we can raise an adopted child with the understanding that I did not get them by accident that we searched out this child and love him/her enough to raise as our own. And we will have to deal with what comes.

What am I supposed to do when my blood son gets angry and says hurtful things? We will deal with it as a family and hopefully we can raise our children with enough love and mutual respect that when the tough times come we can solve them as rationally as we can.

Mike