Completely devastated

[PolishPython]

Without highjacking the thread and starting drama. The people that will give you negative comments on here , in person or anywhere else are people who jumped into a relationship at a young age and couldnt handle it so they think EVERYONE cant handle it. Dont be stopped by "Haters". and "Tough Love" is BULL !!!!!
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[PolishPython]

Thank you for your wonderful reply, that made me feel somewhat better. She's always found a way in the past and i'm sure she will now. No idea how long that will be but hopefully it will be soon. In the meantime I will be able to focus much more time and energy on my ball pythons and I will use my love for them as a way to vent my frustrations of not being able to talk to my girl. While LGray23 has some great input of the normal herp forum I am very offended by her comment and have decided to put her on my ignore list. If L could see into my heart and see the way I feel about her (and she loves me as much as I do her..if not more) she would understand and realize that she is wrong. Anyways thank you and have a great day

No problem

[evan385]

Just because they aren't what you wanted to hear doesn't make them "bad comments". I'm not trying to be a downer, I'm just being honest. According to the law, and mentally, she is considered a kid, therefore she needs to abide by her parents rules. You, as an adult lawfully, should respectfully back off. If nothing else it will show maturity, and may do more "good" in the long run...

Not necessarily. Her mother has always treated her like she's trash and told her to her face that she was a mistake. She hates her mother and will never see or speak to her again once we're together. I also said not to comment on the age difference.

[Misfit]

That's rough. :/

If you two make eachother happy then hey, that's what good for you. :] I won't comment or warn you about ages and all that, my boyfriend's parents met when his mom was 14 and his dad was 18.... they've been married 34 years and are absolutely adorable. Granted, I had a worse 16-year-old experience. lol! Everyone is different.

Anyways, I -do- agree to back off. It sucks. A lot.. and I understand you came here to vent, but maybe try to abide by the parents through winter and then come Spring.. who knows? Maybe they'll see you've made an effort and allow you to be in contact once more! :] I had a friend deal with a similar thing and the parents literally got a restraining order against the guy, so I just think you should be careful.

[evan385]

That's rough. :/

If you two make eachother happy then hey, that's what good for you. :] I won't comment or warn you about ages and all that, my boyfriend's parents met when his mom was 14 and his dad was 18.... they've been married 34 years and are absolutely adorable. Granted, I had a worse 16-year-old experience. lol! Everyone is different.

Anyways, I -do- agree to back off. It sucks. A lot.. and I understand you came here to vent, but maybe try to abide by the parents through winter and then come Spring.. who knows? Maybe they'll see you've made an effort and allow you to be in contact once more! :] I had a friend deal with a similar thing and the parents literally got a restraining order against the guy, so I just think you should be careful.

Thank you, yeah it does suck. I'll be with her when i'm eighty something. I don't really care what her mother thinks because she has always treated her like trash. She hates her mother and won't be seeing or talking to her ever again once we're together.

[evan385]

I won't comment or warn you about ages and all that, my boyfriend's parents met when his mom was 14 and his dad was 18.... they've been married 34 years and are absolutely adorable.

Ohhhhh! What now LGray23? See you are wrong

[evan385]

I realize now that putting LGray23 on my ignore list is a little harsh and i'm sorry. She was only expressing her opinion. She has some very good input on the normal herp forums and I don't want to lose that.

[DemmBalls]

I agree with PolishPython...My parents got married when they were 18 & 21 years old...32 years later they are still very happily married. I have been with my wife for almost 7 years (dating included) and we are now in a similar situation as you (although her parents really like me). We moved to OH for her schooling and now that she has completed her education, she recieved a job offer from a firm back in PA. After a long discussion, we decided it would be best if she accepted the offer. Now until I find a new career back in PA, we are stuck doing the long distance relationship thing. We just alternate weekends visiting each other though.

May I ask why her parents hate you? I have to assume there is a reason?

If it's meant to be, you will make it work.

[DemmBalls]

Ohhhhh! What now LGray23? See you are wrong

This kind of crap makes you look really mature...

[evan385]

I agree with PolishPython...My parents got married when they were 18 & 21 years old...32 years later they are still very happily married. I have been with my wife for almost 7 years (dating included) and we are now in a similar situation as you (although her parents really like me). We moved to OH for her schooling and now that she has completed her education, she recieved a job offer from a firm back in PA. After a long discussion, we decided it would be best if she accepted the offer. Now until I find a new career back in PA, we are stuck doing the long distance relationship thing. We just alternate weekends visiting each other though.

May I ask why her parents hate you? I have to assume there is a reason?

If it's meant to be, you will make it work.

At least you get to see each other on the weekends Well her mother didn't want her dating as young as she was when we met. Also I hate her guts and hope she dies...she has always treated my girl like she's trash and even told her to her face that she was a mistake. She hates her mother and will not be seeing or talking to her ever again once we're together. It is, I truly believe that she is the other half of my soul