My female normal was a great eater until i started breeding. I started in october and never really witnessed a lock with my male spider but she now is still off feed. She hasn't been with the male for a while. Is it possible she is gravid? This is my first year and frist time breeding. Any way to tell? Will she go back on feed? She was probable my best eater until I started breeding. She seems interested but will not strike at frozen prekilled or live. Thanks and let me know!