Disaster!

[jglass38]

Actually, she did in fact take responsibility in post 14, which was her second post in the thread.

Yes, and in post #15 I said:

Putting the cat in another room and closing the door would have sufficed. Its great that you take care of your animals, but in this case you punished the cat for your mistake. People are judged by their actions, whether intentionally wrong or mistaken. Its what you do to make changes and turn things around that matters most. I love seeing new people here learning and becoming better caretakers for their pets and meeting new friends. I have met tons of people on here and made some great friends.

Most of what has been discussed since then (at least by me) has had nothing to do directly with her. In a couple of posts there was a productive debate about animal rights and then in one post I stood by what I said at the beginning. Where am I still attacking her (for which I was negative repped yesterday, most likely by you)?

[jglass38]

SARAHMB, if you do ever need to vent or talk about mistakes that have been made and don't feel comfortable here, there are other message boards out there that are a little less harsh about us "animal abusers"..lol.

Don't let the door hit you...

[joyful girl]

Actually, she did in fact take responsibility in post 14, which was her second post in the thread.

I don't think this topic has much to do with her anymore

[MATT FISHER REPTILES]

Well Jo, nothing about this thread makes much sense to me, period. You pointed out that the original post wasn't asking for help, and ignored the fact that the OP said she already felt "sooo bad". And yet you and others felt it was somehow necessary to beat her into the ground over something she has freely admitted was a mistake.
Four pages later you say your issue is with the fact that she blamed the cat and then admitted it was her own fault. Well, what else would you have her do? Honestly, she made a mistake, she owned up to it, and then she was told she should never own animals. I see this as an overreaction.

right on.

[MATT FISHER REPTILES]

they never do after the 5th page of going on and on and on and on and on and on.

[jglass38]

they never do after the 5th page of going on and on and on and on and on and on.

Matt (or Gerry),

Please...You have nothing productive to add and as usual are following me around to just disagree. I thought we were past this but obviously not. Give it a rest.

[MATT FISHER REPTILES]

Matt (or Gerry),

Please...You have nothing productive to add and as usual are following me around to just disagree. I thought we were past this but obviously not. Give it a rest.

i was just responding to Jenns comment. i think you are taking things to personal. LOL

[jglass38]

i was just responding to Jenns comment. i think you are taking things to personal. LOL

I'm sure that's what it was...

[MATT FISHER REPTILES]

I'm sure that's what it was...

well that was easy to fix. if you are sure than i am sure. have a nice day jglass

[frankykeno]

SARAHMB, if you do ever need to vent or talk about mistakes that have been made and don't feel comfortable here, there are other message boards out there that are a little less harsh about us "animal abusers"..lol.

Look the fact is you don't like what was said to you by some of us and that's fine, no one says we all have to agree on every issue on a public forum. However, publically promoting another board and encouraging other members to go there is against the TOS and really isn't very appropriate. So one thread isn't to your liking, so what. What about the hundreds of other helpful threads that exist here. If you want to go elsewhere, that is your choice. If you want to encourage other members to go with you, again your choice but in that choice is the responsibility to show respect to the Admin, Mods and Members of BPNet who participate here on a daily basis and have done so for a very long time.

I see that your post has been edited for this TOS violation and I do hope you understand that moderation isn't an easy role here especially in difficult threads.