The best way it to sex a shed skin and look for flaps inbetween the booklungs (assuming the T is around 2" leg to leg, if it's smaller the flap may not be developed enough to see). If you've got a flap between the booklungs, it's a female.
Another way to sex T's is ventral sexing. This takes a bit of practice to get right.
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