I have had a male pastel and female spider (from the same clutch) for about 3 months now. The male has gotten MUCH bigger than the female and accepts F/T rat pups every time. The female is very finicky and has only taken one or two, so I have started giving her live/stunned prey.
She is pretty skinny and seems a little dehydrated. She has shed twice, incompletely. These past two weeks she has been going around the cage like crazy (all day), wobbling, and trying to escape. She won't use any of the hides I give her (unlike the male) and hangs out on the cool side of the cage a lot (which worries me--it is probably only 75).
Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks!