Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I are proud new owners of a ball python. We purchased her yesterday. I have many questions as I have never liked snakes but saw this one and fell in love. I think from what I have read on the internet that its a female. We already found out this morning that she is an excape artist. lol Thank goodness my boyfriend knew the right place to look for her, under 2 feather quilts. My question for the moment is this....I have just gotten use to petting her. I want to hold her so bad but am worried about her sensing how nervous I am too. I dont want to make her nervous too. Should I just do it and get it over with or like start with just holding her tail??? Sorry this maybe a stupid question but I want to do this the right way. I would love to one day be able to hold her around my neck and not freak.