Update on Hubby and how things are at home...

Hey y'all...

I don't know if anyone's noticed, but I haven't been around as much as usual lately. I'm really sorry about that and will try to get back into the full swing of things! I really miss feeling like an integral part of this place! Lately, it's been more like the occasional cameo appearance. :(

Anyhow...Dean is fully ensconced at his job in Afghanistan. He's in a very secure location, and so far as I understand things now, his job requires very little travel outside of that compound, so there's little chance of him running into much in the way of war-time excitement. His days consist of waking up...working 16-18 hours....going to bed....and waking up again. Seven days a week. It's pretty insane. And he told me he's never ready for his day to end because there's always so much more to do.

Our communication has been more spotty than I'd hoped for, but hopefully as the weeks and months roll on, we'll settle into a more comfortable routine. I'm hoping, anyhow. But at least I know he's relatively safe...and has relatively comfortable accomodations. He has a small room that he only has to share with one other guy of equal rank (who happens to be a British Officer). Other than that, I don't know much about what's going on or what his day-to-day life is like, other than work-work-work-sleep-work-work-work.

Here at home, we're getting along alright. Emotionally, the kids and I are holding up pretty well. God has been very faithful and His peace and stregth are felt every day. But, each day it seems like I fall a teeny bit further behind in all that needs to be done. You just never realize how much you count on your partner being there and helping out with stuff until he's gone for sooo long. So lately, I've been in perpetual catch-up mode....which steals time away from the computer...and makes me feel behind on all the projects and duties I have here as well. It's turning into a bit of a vicious cycle. :(

Anyhow....sorry to ramble on so much. I thought some of you might like an update on how Dean is doing....and I thought I should let you know that I've not abandoned anyone or forgotten about y'all! Just really busy, with little mental energy left for the online world. But I'm optimistic that things will smooth out and perk up again before too long. I just need to figure out a new and more efficient routine for our day-to-day lives...and once that settles in, things should start getting better.

Miss you guys like crazy! And I promise I'll be around as much as I can be!

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Thanks for the update Judy! ... Miss ya! .... Kelly and I keep you, Dean, and the kids in our thoughts. :love:

-adam

Glad to hear he's safe and we'll keep you in our thoughts.

Its good to hear Dean is doing ok and he is safe!:salute: Stay stong and I hope things will become easier for you very soon. :)

I'm so glad to hear that Dean's safe and that you and your kids are holding up at home :hug: I haven't been around much, either, but when I am, I always look forward to your posts. My thanks go out to Dean for serving, and for your family's sacrifice, not having a Husband and Father around so that our country can be safer. :salute:

thanx for the update Judy. Good to know that Dean is safe. Dont worry about catching up, its a cycle that never ends. As long as everyone is safe and healthy thats what counts. Your family is in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. :D

Judy,

So glad to hear that Dean is relatively safe, and that you and the kids are holding up ok. :hug:

aww... we sure do miss you around here! but you take care of yourself and your family! that's what matters!

Sending lots of love your way Judy. :hug:

Glad to hear (relatively) good things Judy. Sending good thoughts to you and yours.

:blowkiss: Stay stong hun and tell you hubby big huge thank you from my family

Thanks for the update Judy! I am also glad to hear that your husband is fairly safe and that you and your kids are hanging in there. Been keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers, as with all of our troops that are serving. Again a big thanks to your husband, and all of our military, for what they do for us everyday, and a big thank you for your family's sacrifice. :salute:

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Thank you, guys! Your understanding and support means the world to me! :salute:

I've said it to you privately Judy, but I'll say it again here. Dean is a hero for serving this country during wartime, just like every soldier is but there's heroes like you too hon. Back home, keeping life moving along and stable for the kids, doing what must be done even when it's a lonely, tough time. Big hugs my friend, I'm glad Dean is as safe as can be in that situation and I know you are going to be okay. Give your kids a hug and tell them from me they have a hell of a mom!

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Originally Posted by frankykeno

I've said it to you privately Judy, but I'll say it again here. Dean is a hero for serving this country during wartime, just like every soldier is but there's heroes like you too hon. Back home, keeping life moving along and stable for the kids, doing what must be done even when it's a lonely, tough time. Big hugs my friend, I'm glad Dean is as safe as can be in that situation and I know you are going to be okay. Give your kids a hug and tell them from me they have a hell of a mom!

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A huge DITTO what Jo said.....

I continue to keep Dean and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

I can't imagine how stressful this could be for you and the kids! Good thing they have a strong momma to hold everything together. stay strong Judy, I hope you, Dean, and the kids stay safe. :salute:

:oops: You guys are so wonderful! I don't know what I'd do without'cha!!! :grouphug:

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Originally Posted by frankykeno

I've said it to you privately Judy, but I'll say it again here. Dean is a hero for serving this country during wartime, just like every soldier is but there's heroes like you too hon. Back home, keeping life moving along and stable for the kids, doing what must be done even when it's a lonely, tough time. Big hugs my friend, I'm glad Dean is as safe as can be in that situation and I know you are going to be okay. Give your kids a hug and tell them from me they have a hell of a mom!

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I agree with Jo 100%.
We are all in debted to the soldiers and their families for the sacrifices they endure for the benefit of all. May it pass soon so Dean and all the soldiers can be home with the ones they love.

Thanks for all you do Judy:salute:

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You'll settle into a routine soon, and I really think that will help... You guys are in my thoughts and prayers! :salute: Hang in there!

This may be of help too, have you heard of a site called Chorebuster? It's helped me out a LOT in keeping track of what needs to be done, who needs to do it, etc and same goes for anybody else I know who's used it. I've been pimping it to anybody who I think might be able to take advantage, especially with kids. Once it's set up you can print out a month's worth of chores, who needs to do what and when etc, and it takes a load off trying to keep it all in your head. Just a thought! Also, it's free! :)

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