Considering leaving

Im thinking bout leaving the forum. I first thought you people were nice.

Then I went to Adam's chat.


Yes Iknow I am a whiney :cens0r::cens0r::cens0r::cens0r::cens0r: i just broke up with my bf of a year. Yes I know I'm ugly. Sorry for asking for advice!


I hoped tomake friends here. I'm really sad that I ran into what I encountered elsewhere

Well I'm sorry to hear that you've had an upleasant experience, but I don't think the actions of a few should rule over the masses.
Further more, I'm sorry you felt that you couldn't resolve it by talking to these people privately, as things always tend to go worse on forums when you bring this to everyone's attention.
Again I'm sorry to hear that you were made to feel whatever way you do. But do remember, its just the internet, you can always walk away from it, but the forum will still be here waiting.

Hmmmm... you take the world to seriously my friend. This is the happy place, the chat is the place for crude humor. If you dont like us much i hear the people on the cornsnakes.com site are nice people.

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Originally Posted by bc30629

Hmmmm... you take the world to seriously my friend. This is the happy place, the chat is the place for crude humor. If you dont like us much i hear the people on the cornsnakes.com site are nice people.

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*coughs* If you think this site is nice then why did you mention cornsnakes.com? I hope that's not some vieled inbetween forum tension.

disregard this im just pissed off i really dont care

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Originally Posted by Nifer

*coughs* If you think this site is nice then why did you mention cornsnakes.com? I hope that's not some vieled inbetween forum tension.

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haha... no tension no tension... she just wanted to leave. I dig the cornsnake people too.

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Originally Posted by bc30629

haha... no tension no tension... she just wanted to leave. I dig the cornsnake people too.

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Awesomesauce.
*tries to derail topic in leu of impending e drama*

Everyone on this forum...except for a few jerks that join just to start tension from time to time....are very nice and very friendly and very happy. Adam's Chat is just that a chat...everyone there has know eachother for a while and are very comfortable with "letting it all hang out". I have been to the chat a few times and "hung out". Wed. night chat is a place to go and vent and have a good time..not for real problems...atleast thats what it seems like when I was there. Not a darn thing wrong with that...I did not participate much...just sat and lurked lol but that is my fault for not jumping in and having a good time along with everyone else. If you are not comfortable with the chat then I suggest not going. If you have personal problems maybe you should find a chat room specifically targeted for those problems. Hope you stick around and get to see that everyone here is a very nice person and if there is a "serious" issue with your or your animals they are not afraid to step up and give words of encouragement or advice.

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Originally Posted by ZEKESMOM

Everyone on this forum...except for a few jerks that join just to start tension from time to time....are very nice and very friendly and very happy. Adam's Chat is just that a chat...everyone there has know eachother for a while and are very comfortable with "letting it all hang out". I have been to the chat a few times and "hung out". Wed. night chat is a place to go and vent and have a good time..not for real problems...atleast thats what it seems like when I was there. Not a darn thing wrong with that...I did not participate much...just sat and lurked lol but that is my fault for not jumping in and having a good time along with everyone else. If you are not comfortable with the chat then I suggest not going. If you have personal problems maybe you should find a chat room specifically targeted for those problems. Hope you stick around and get to see that everyone here is a very nice person and if there is a "serious" issue with your or your animals they are not afraid to step up and give words of encouragement or advice.

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I agree, although if it's a big enough issue they'll help but for the most part it's just to joke around and have a good time :)

im cool with things now

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im cool with things now

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:cool: Cool...stick around your gonna love this place!

im having health and relationships and im about to go through 7 days of hell so yea things are messed up

back off folks, her mom is a marine. She'll kick your ass.

hang in there....sometimes life seems to be overwhelming , but when it calms down you wonder why you got so worked up LOL By the way...Welcome to the site. My name is Lisa:)

lmao that reminds me when my momsnuck up onmy abusive dad nd beamed him in the head with a pure crystal ashtray. and while she was preg withme she beamed him with a phoin knockingout a goodportion of teeth

ilove
my momma

Ello Lisa!!! *hugs

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Originally Posted by JeriBeri

Im thinking bout leaving the forum. I first thought you people were nice.

Then I went to Adam's chat.


Yes Iknow I am a whiney :cens0r::cens0r::cens0r::cens0r::cens0r: i just broke up with my bf of a year. Yes I know I'm ugly. Sorry for asking for advice!


I hoped tomake friends here. I'm really sad that I ran into what I encountered elsewhere

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LIES!!!!!

...ok that's all, just wanted to point that out, cuz if you were that offended you wouldn't still be in the chat :cool:

lol yea im just blah right now

Yeah the forum has some really cooh people on it. If you dont wanna hear crude humor stay away from the chat room. If anything I got kicked out. :popcorn: .For defending myself. Its all good Adam and the whole Bp network are cool people and they keep the forums looking right and keeping this thing non profanity and disrespectful humor free

This is just my suggestion... You just joined the forum yesterday, but I noticed you've already started many threads and already really put yourself out there. Maybe just take it easy for a while... Let people get to know you in a more organic way than just putting everything out in the open right away. Alot of the members are tightly knit so maybe going right into the chat the day after you sign up wasn't the best idea. Do some more posting in the actual bp forums, take your time. Hope you take no offense to this, it wasn't meant in a malicious way.

:sleep:

JeriBeri, how about a slice of southern pecan pie, might raise your spirits a bit? :)

http://newenglandreptile.com/forumpics/pecan.jpg

iknow you meanno harm dark

:P UMMM umm Pecan pie. Why did you have to show that pic now I want some damn pie

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:P UMMM umm Pecan pie. Why did you have to show that pic now I want some damn pie

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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... piiiiiieeeeee

Too bad cake > pie... any day of the week :D

Damn now I want Pecan Pie, and I cant eat sweets ATM

3 cavities

they better hurry n fillem im needing chocolate

Just wanted to say...dont let the Bash Clan get you down, theres plenty of good peeps here to pick you up when your feelin down. :)

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Damn now I want Pecan Pie, and I cant eat sweets ATM

3 cavities

they better hurry n fillem im needing chocolate

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yea im sorry for being a jerk.

:sleepy: :heartbrea

First off....I understand that Jeri had a rough night and says everything is fine now. So this isn't intended to address her directly.


I just need to point out that 8-ball chat is just that...it's Adam's site and Adam's rules and is in no way affiliated or connected to Ball-Pythons.net except that Adam happens to be a great member here and invites other members here to chat at HIS site.

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Just wanted to say...dont let the Bash Clan get you down, theres plenty of good peeps here to pick you up when your feelin down. :)

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Ed, Bash Clan? :confused:

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Originally Posted by ECLARK

Just wanted to say...dont let the Bash Clan get you down, theres plenty of good peeps here to pick you up when your feelin down. :)

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there is/was no bashing in chat. :colbert:

No crying either. :hmm:

It was a good time! :D as always.

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Originally Posted by jeffnme

there is/was no bashing in chat. :colbert:

No crying either. :hmm:

It was a good time! :D as always.

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Then what is they issue! lol; I miss one or two chats and I feel like I am in the Dark Ages. :) But then again, that might be a good thing..
This forum rocks, period.

JeriBeri...

The 8ball chat is in no way related to the goings on here at BP.net The Admin simply allow Adam to let everyone know that its available on this site. People are very friendly here and do enjoy helping. The 8ball chat can get rough I wasn't there I had an issue at the house I had to deal with. Please don't take offense to the things people say in chat.

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Then what is they issue! lol; I miss one or two chats and I feel like I am in the Dark Ages. :) But then again, that might be a good thing..
This forum rocks, period.

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Just the typical chat :rolleyes: lol.

somebody was officially offended.

yes....it does rock! :D

haha! says right in Adams rules if you can't take it! Get out! He invites his friends over there from this site, and opens it up to everyone! He PAYS for his site, and can have whatever he wants in there! your confusing his site for BP.net...............i bet if you call him right now and have a concern about your animal being sick...HE WILL HELP YOU! his chat is where we let loose!


hope this helps (i stole his line) :D

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Originally Posted by jeffnme

Just the typical chat :rolleyes: lol.

somebody was officially offended.

yes....it does rock!

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Good! :D :eek:

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I bet if you call him right now and have a concern about your animal being sick...HE WILL HELP YOU!

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You don't even have to have a problem just call to BS.

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his chat is where we let loose!

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let LOOSE!!! :rockon:

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Originally Posted by Freakie_frog

You don't even have to have a problem just call to BS.

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:sweeet:

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Originally Posted by Freakie_frog

You don't even have to have a problem just call to BS.

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about anything? :D

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about anything? :D

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You'll find Adam enjoys talking to fellow herpers. And if you keep him on the phone long enough you might get to hear him get bit.. LOL

Not to highjack your thread here I am sorry that you had a bad time most of the time people are just joking and picking fun. If you participate next week just know that you bring a stiff drink and thick skin.. LOL

I didn't see any bashing going on, not sure why we're being made out to be bullies :confused:
But it's not a emo support group, that's for sure! lol
I had a great time, thanks Adam! :carouse:

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I didn't see any bashing going on, not sure why we're being made out to be bullies :confused:
But it's not a emo support group, that's for sure! lol
I had a great time, thanks Adam! :carouse:

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I always have a great time in chat. Have I mentioned that I :wuv: Sarah? :D

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o yea...herping. gotcha :gj:

the only true piece of information offered here was that there was a lot of whining, but besides that the chat was pretty true to form

there's just no crying in chat!

ranting is completely acceptable ;)

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Originally Posted by SarahMB

But it's not a emo support group, that's for sure! lol
:carouse:

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lol, that was funny!

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But it's not a emo support group, that's for sure! lol!

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:rofl:

Me and chat...we're tight.:D

what happens in chat, stays in chat


the first rule about chat club, is do not talk about chat club

:D