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Tomorrow is gonna be a rough day first a 200 mile trip to the Roseburg VA then its a 7 hour appt. for my Husband He had been recovering from Bladder Cancer for almost two years now, the trick is not getting depressed about this, In fact I ask God daily please keep him healthy because I would have a hard time finding a New Husband that likes and respect,s my Snakes. While I will be gone all day and into the evening my neighbor is going to stop in at my house and take pictures and text them to me, My Husband, s Doctor's always look forward to my picture's. [emoji4] [emoji631] [emoji631] [emoji631]

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Good luck and Godspeed on your journey!

Praying your husband has a speedy recovery and I hope you have a safe journey.

Prayers up for recovery and safe trip.

Sounds like a cool doctor too.

Prayers for you and your husband.

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Prayers for your family and that your husband heals.

Praying for good results, keep positive xo

Wishing your husband the best recovery - sounds like he's a keeper <3

Well here is the news, he's been fighting Bladder cancer as in keep the odds in his favor for 2 years he had surgery and Treatment on this that looked good but now he has clogged Arteries going to his heart I don't like this we are waiting for the Doctors to call to see what they are going to do about this. I told those Doctors they better fix him asap.

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Praying for the both of you! :salute::salute:

VA called oh boy now the fun starts, they want him on Nitro like right now I had them call the Bi Mart pharmacy we use and it will be ready tomorrow early afternoon, next Im changing some food Items to ok and not ok and if you eat the no no food it will explode and squirt pink dye all over your face lol then they want to schedule heart surgery in Portland's VA Hospital like I said the fun begins. I will feel a little better after we pick up the nitro. When I have to leave town my neighbor will check my Animals 2 times a day she can't feed them but that's ok with me . Thank God for good neighbor, s. Im also going to keep all this positive so Dwain will not hear all the negative stuff

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Honestly Im sitting in the living room crying Dwain went to bed. I do not want Dwain to see me crying not now he has a plate full

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My neighbor came over and she told me She would make live video on her walk thru so it will be just like I'm here , what a Sweetheart she is. This is a case were today's technology is sweet.


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Glad the cancer is staying away, that's a victory! Your positivity is to be admired, you're a good wife <3 my dad recently had a heart attack and had to put 4 stints in...not sure what the heart situation is but if it makes you feel any better I was very impressed with how easily/quick the recovery was while he had the work done on his heart, hoping the same for your husband. Keep strong sweetheart

Thanks I will be strong and I will make sure he's eating the right foods and I will make sure he takes his medicines . Life is odd at times it just throws stuff at you and it's hard to understand at times.

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It's so strange when curve balls are thrown and it's like we almost have to kick into high gear survival mode and push aside the emotional part of things. He's lucky to have such a supportive spouse. I know your probably so worried and upset but don't forget to take care of yourself too. Please keep us updated, I'm sure with your support and positive efforts everything will be fine. He's a strong guy for beating the cancer, he can get through this too with your love.

I'm now worried about Mama Payne she is 86 but you would not know that she looks like she's 60 I will go see her tomorrow when We pick up Dwains Meds and explain all this to her.

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Thanks I will be strong and I will make sure he's eating the right foods and I will make sure he takes his medicines . Life is odd at times it just throws stuff at you and it's hard to understand at times.

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best wishes to you and the family.

throwing stuff at you is what life does. about a year ago my teenage son had a depression issue that reached critical mass. I told him that life challenges everyone and says "show me what you got." then I told him "it's your turn now, never back down from that challenge."

I will not back down on anything we picked up his nitro at the drug store I've read up about it as I need to be in the loop on any and every thing he's taking or eating. Thanks everyone it helps to just talk about it.

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I will not back down on anything we picked up his nitro at the drug store I've read up about it as I need to be in the loop on any and every thing he's taking or eating. Thanks everyone it helps to just talk about it.

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I didn't think you would. and it's great that you have such a true friend in your neighbor. these are the people who get us through the challenge. no one does it alone.

prayers and safe travels

Thanks everyone for your kind words.

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We are still waiting for the doctor to call and we will take it from their another season in life , we will greet every morning with thankfulness.

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God speed Lady. :hug: i'm happy to hear u have nice neighbors and can find comfort in the forum.

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Update My Husband will be going to the VA In Portland Or for Surgery He is having to take nitro a bit more . Good news is I have him not smoking Tobacco any more and next is dropping the long cut grizzly stuff I have him using one of my ecig mods And he's just talking mouth hits and it's working I have him fixed up with Cola eliquid . I need to remove all the things that cause irritation to his condition.



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It was a huge step for Dwain to drop The Tobacco I'm very proud of him .

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Huge step in the right direction ! I'm so proud of him that's an awfully hard habit to kick !

Yes it is I was there at one time in my life.

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I quit for good Jan 2015 I had quit a few times but could never put hem away when I was drinking but I can finally have a few drinks and not even think about smoking. I haven't been sick since I quit and my fitness has improved greatly ! It's been over 1 year now and I still miss being a smoker but I sure do love the benefits of not being one.

Hope you get Dwain in for surgery sooner than later so you two can move forward into the healing process then on with your happy lives :)