You know that gag about the snake in the peanut jar?

So, long story short, I gave away a piebald. As a graduation present, to a very deserving friend who I know will take care of him.

Long story long: Karen and I go waaaay back. We've known each other 13 years now. Karen and I went to graduate school together, and flunked out of the same PhD program. (I mean, we both finished with a Masters degree instead of a PhD. But we both lost several years of our lives to floundering around without proper PhD advisors. You know, the usual graduate degree failure story.) Karen and her then-boyfriend were the photographers at my wedding; I was a bridesmaid at their wedding. Somehow we both ended up in Phoenix, and we both eventually re-enrolled as PhD students in the program here. We collaborate together on projects, we complain about the same people, other students mix our names up.

And Karen has wanted a piebald for years. YEARS. She knows several people with ball pythons, and my big lazy (inert, really) pied female helped Karen get over her snake phobia. When I hatched my first pied clutch this year, Karen came over and immediately fell in love with the 50/50 male hatchling. But she couldn't afford the pied price tag. And I sure as heck wasn't just going to give away a pretty 40% white male for free.

Anyway, that's what I thought.

The little pied had other ideas. He didn't want to eat. I started assist feeding him in November. He started eating on his own around Christmas. By spring he was taking f/t, but he was still underweight.

So when Karen announced she was defending her thesis in April, I still had the little guy.

http://vimeo.com/64208187

She's thinking of naming him Peanut. Or maybe Dr. Peanut, PhD.

(And yeah, normally we wear jeans and T-shirts to thesis defenses. But since Karen has basically worked twice as hard for twice as long, she declared it a black tie event. Several people wore bowties and ball gowns, and Karen's husband showed up in a top hat and tails.) (And no, I'm not defending this year. Next year, or the year after.) (Never ask a PhD student when they are defending. They might answer, or they might curl into a ball. Or they might cut you. Very dangerous, hard to predict.)

I love Mom! "Uh, what'd you say?" Ha Ha!

What a good friend you are!

Really enjoyed watching this haha :gj: fantastic surprise!

Wow! You are such an awesome person for doing that! Who wouldn't love a little piebald in a peanut can!!!

That was really heart warming.

You're such a good friend!

Love it, that was too awesome! Very few people ever make friendships like that and fewer still, I think, maintain them. Cherish what you two have!

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I love Mom! "Uh, what'd you say?" Ha Ha!

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Poor Karen's mom! She's even more snake phobic than Karen used to be. She's so bad, she can't even talk about it for more than about 2 minutes without having a nervous breakdown. Last night Karen's dad said "Let's go out for snake" instead "Let's go out for steak," and poor Mom almost strangled him.

Luckily, Karen doesn't have a set-up to take care of the little guy. So I'm keeping him until after her parents leave. But her mom can't even look at the peanut jar without shuddering.

Oh, and I'll confess: I didn't take this video to prove what a great person I am. I took this video because every single person I told about it beforehand said "Uhhhh..... what? You're giving Karen a what? Does Karen... want a snake? Or do you just hate Karen and I didn't know?"

I took this video to prove to everyone else that YES, Karen really was HAPPY to receive a snake in a peanut jar.

That was adorable! :D :D :D

Omg...that story/video brought tears to my eyes....i can just tell how happy you made her! Very touching. :o

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I really wanted to see this. It takes me to the video, but it won't play. Maybe because I'm on tapatalk? :(

Sorry! I've had similar complaints when I post YouTube videos. I think some phones just aren't very video compatible? But maybe there's a setting I can play with in Vimeo.

Oh, are you on an iPhone? Try just viewing it in Safari. That usually works.

Nope. Android. I don't have problems with you tube videos. So I dunno. :(

What an awesome experience you captured there, and no canned laughter! :D

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I really wanted to see this. It takes me to the video, but it won't play. Maybe because I'm on tapatalk? :(

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Im on tapatalk n it worked just fine for me...:confused:
I also have an android phone.

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Nope. Android. I don't have problems with you tube videos. So I dunno. :(

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Shoulda got an iphone, no problems here ;)

That was a really cool story. I don't understand most of it, but congrats on finishing your Ph. D's... I think...?

Haha, no, only Karen finished her PhD. I still have to finish mine. Just do me a favor and never ask me, "so, Jackie, are you almost done? How long have you been in school now, exactly?"

That was really awesome, thank you for sharing!

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Haha, no, only Karen finished her PhD. I still have to finish mine. Just do me a favor and never ask me, "so, Jackie, are you almost done? How long have you been in school now, exactly?"

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Expect this exact question from Mike shortly. You asked for it :P

Amazing story and good on you for being a super awesome friend! She looks absolutely thrilled!

That's probably the cutest thing I've seen all day! What an awesome friend! I myself have an infatuation with pieds/piebalds, so it was amazing to see something like this. Lovely snake, too. x3

That was so very sweet!

I was waiting for her to start crying, you could tell from the look on her face she did not quite believe what was in the can.

It's wonderful to be able to help a friend realize a dream, even if that dream is to own a snake.

Congratulations to her for both getting her PhD and a new friend!

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I was waiting for her to start crying, you could tell from the look on her face she did not quite believe what was in the can.

It's wonderful to be able to help a friend realize a dream, even if that dream is to own a snake.

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Karen said she cried when she got the talking teddy bear in the graduation cap/gown from her PhD advisors. But THEY told me she didn't cry when they gave it to her. I think she was just doing that low-level eyes-stinging thing, not outright bawling.

(My friend Todd is a huge, shaved-head, weight-lifter dude from Texas. He actually went out in the hall and sobbed his fool head off after he passed his PhD defense earlier this year. And nobody even gave him a teddy bear or a pet snake. Just a degree he'd seriously started to doubt he'd ever get.)

Wow what an awesome feeling. Finishing your degree and getting a gorgeous snake. I bet she's over the moon. Very awesome of you to give him to her and I wish you the best of luck in your schooling!