Dorm life!

As I'm going to become a college freshman this year, I was wondering how everyone liked their dorm life? What was your favorite/least favorite moment? Or did you just not like it at all?

Also, I'm thinking about bringing a T into the dorm with me, then again I'd chicken out because I'd be scared to get caught haha.

Is the T worth losing out on your education and getting in trouble?


Yes. Yes it is.

No experience with dorm life.

You can't get in trouble if you keep your T out of sight. An RA cannot uncover anything in the room. If its not out in plain sight, they won't find it. Also, a lot of schools allow small caged pets anyways.

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Originally Posted by Quantum Constrictors

Is the T worth losing out on your education and getting in trouble?


Yes. Yes it is.

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Actually, it wouldn't make you lose out on education, it would just be a 'slap on the wrist' from what I heard, but I just don't like getting on the bad side of people. That's the only thing daunting on my thoughts about doing it haha.

The worst thing about living on campus was having to deal with other people's noises, yelling, music, etc. I bought an expensive pair of headphones and some earplugs to deal with it. I didn't have a room-mate, but I'm sure there's bad stuff associated with that.

The best thing was that your friends will be right down the hall. Before I moved off-campus, I didn't realize how much I would miss being able to go hang out with someone just by walking up a flight of stairs. The main reason I moved off-campus was so that I could have my cat, who was really old at the time, because I was afraid she'd pass away while I was gone. In the end, she survived for another 5 years, so...yeah. I don't regret it though, :)

My school had a policy of you could only have critters that you could hold under water for 10 minutes and it still live! :D However, my group of friends were all animal lovers and creative, so two of my friends had rats and ferrets, while I had 2 hamsters and 2 rats in my room. I lived in a single, so I used the extra dresser to hold their cages, and anytime I left my room, even if it was just to go to the bathroom, I closed the drawers, just in case there was a surprise fire drill.

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Originally Posted by theReptileGuy

Actually, it wouldn't make you lose out on education, it would just be a 'slap on the wrist' from what I heard, but I just don't like getting on the bad side of people. That's the only thing daunting on my thoughts about doing it haha.

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Oh lucky you then. My one american friend if they do anything wrong its more than just a slap on the wrist. Its a pretty up tight place. They can get expelled for looking at porn!....and everyone there is over 18!

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Originally Posted by Quantum Constrictors

Oh lucky you then. My one american friend if they do anything wrong its more than just a slap on the wrist. Its a pretty up tight place. They can get expelled for looking at porn!....and everyone there is over 18!

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Yea, i dont think hes going to BYU :rofl:

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Originally Posted by Mike41793

Yea, i dont think hes going to BYU :rofl:

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Its not even a religious school! LOL thats just one of the policies! Kinda unfair if you ask me. Its not even just porn either. Even just naked pictures can get you suspended or kicked out.

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Originally Posted by Quantum Constrictors

Its not even a religious school! LOL thats just one of the policies! Kinda unfair if you ask me. Its not even just porn either. Even just naked pictures can get you suspended or kicked out.

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What college...?

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Originally Posted by Mike41793

What college...?

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Not sure of the exact one but its in Montana.

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Originally Posted by Quantum Constrictors

Not sure of the exact one but its in Montana.

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Huh. Well that seems odd lol.

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Originally Posted by Mike41793

Huh. Well that seems odd lol.

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Yah. But the college I am probably going to end up going to is just down the street from me :) Dont have to move!

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Originally Posted by Quantum Constrictors

Yah. But the college I am probably going to end up going to is just down the street from me :) Dont have to move!

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I'll have to move but there's no way I'm living on campus lol

Living on campus can be good or bad. My first year roommate is still my friend 15+ years later. On the other hand, another friend of mine has some serious horror stories; his first roommate smoked both pot and cigarettes in their room no matter how much he was asked to stop, and was just generally an all-around pain to live with otherwise. Same guy's roommate 2nd year was mildly creepy and always cooking some weird-smelling dish in their room. That's the risk; you never know what you're going to get - could be great, could be awful, could be indifferent.

Honestly, there are times when I miss the community aspect of it, and especially the easy access friends thing, as others have mentioned. That said, I do not miss dorm food even a little bit.

In my personal experience, the good stuff was *mostly* worth dealing with the bad, and I did it for the first 3 years, though the 2nd and 3rd years I had a room to myself. 4th year I moved into an apartment with a couple of friends, and that worked out pretty well most of the time, but it had its own pitfalls. One of the three of us sharing the apartment was REALLY bad about cleaning up after himself, NEVER took his turn cleaning the bathroom, etc, and the other two got pretty passive aggresive about it at times, which resulted in everyone involved being pretty miserable for a while. Eventually we'd give up and do the cleaning, but it always felt like letting him win, which sucked, even if the end result was having somewhere clean to live again.

Oddly enough, I'm still friends with the "guilty" party of the cleaning situation, but I haven't lived with him for something like 8 or 9 years now - it's a lot easier to be friendly when there's no seething undertone of annoyance. :)

No housing situation will ever be perfect, and I think most people eventually end up living off campus at some point in their college careers. That said, IMO it makes sense to live on campus for your first year, both just for the experience of it and so that you can kind of get your bearings at school and in a new city without having to worry about all the stuff that goes with being truly out on your own right away. If you live in the dorms, you get meals prepared for you, you only have to pay rent on a per-semester basis, usually rolled into the same bill as your tuition, and things are generally easy (no paying monthly utility bills, etc). Even if your roommate situation isn't what you'd like, you're just about guaranteed to meet lots of people you'll enjoy, and that's a big benefit.

I had a gecko in my room and my RA never found out.

I liked living in a dorm for the first semester. It was nice to have people to hang out with at the beginning and we got into some hilarious shenanigans. By second semester though, I was pretty tired of all the forced socialization. Nothing irritates me more than someone insisting we hang out or coming over unannounced... and that happens basically daily in a dorm. It was really nice being so close to all of my classes though and dorm parties were pretty wild!

I kept a large boa constrictor and a small tegu my freshman year. I had a friend that had an insane amount of animals. He had an alligator behind his desk.

I am still friend with my roommate to this day and we binge whenever he is on leave. I did move off campus first chance I got. So much cheaper and loads more shenanigans:beer:;)

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Personally wouldn't want to bring an animal into those sorts of conditions, living in closets and whatnot. Plus, that's why I love having such a nice display, I love watching him cruise. Couldn't do that in a dorm! :P

joking aside, though, my experience with the dorms wasn't awful. My roommate and I became friends, and I was close to some of my classes. The worst was the general noise, although I had it better than most-- 6th floor, so far away from street level, and my floor was pretty antisocial. It was always loud on weekends tough. Vuvuzelas should not be legal...

basically, your happiness depends on your location and your roommate.

I found out later that my dorm buddies were playing earthquake simulation with my lizards when I was out of the room.