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So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?

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Originally Posted by cecilbturtle

So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?

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Give her a Reptar... Ladies love Reptar.

whats a reptar?

Buck up ****o! But, on a serious note, if she's explicitly said she does not reciprocate the feelings that you have professed for her then you probably aren't going to change her mind.

Some people would say just move on, friendships are only for using each other and if you can't use her for what you want (whether it be friendly conversation or it's drugs (I'm kidding, but I don't want this to come off as a "I use all my friends for personal gain")) then it's time to move on. Cease all contact, try again in a few months and maybe distance will make the heart grow fonder.

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Originally Posted by cecilbturtle

So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?

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Backtrack! Be like, "I was kidding, I just wanted to see what you'd say."

Really, be friends. Some of the best relationships start that way. Worst case, you end up with a really cool friend. Try to think past the initial butterflies that we all have in the beginning, that feeling isn't permanent whether a romantic relationship develops or not.

Try to convince yourself that your feelings for her are misguided.

I think the worse thing you could do is remain friends with her in hopes that it will turn into something more. If you want to stay friends, accept the rejection and move on from it. If you can't accept it, then cease contact. I've had a few guys remain friends with me for the sole purpose of trying to wear me down and win me over, and it only really lead to resentment on their part and hurt feelings on my part when I figured it out. There will be other girls that are just as great (or even better) than her :gj: :love:

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Originally Posted by h00blah

Give her a Reptar... Ladies love Reptar.

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Solid advice right here.

Tase her and throw her in the trunk. Jk jk don't do that they'll take me down with you, and I'm too pretty for jail. I think it's best to remain friends. Don't expect her to change her mind though. If you can't handle just being friends, break off the friendship. But just leave her high and dry tell her why you can't be her friend.

Alcohol...

Reptar is super awesome. Awesome just doesn't begin to give him the credit he deserves. He should get a new word just to explain his levels of awesome. Like fantabulouwesome.

Super cereal part:

If you love something, let it go. If it doesn't come back, hunt it down and kill it.

Crap that wasn't serious either. Ok for really reals this time:

If you believe you can stay friends with her, and move on / date other women, do it. If your feelings for her are too strong, get away from her. It's just going to hurt you slowly watching her go for other guys. (Friendzone is no bueno)

Back onto nonseriousness, lets take a moment for our bro in the friend zone.

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Originally Posted by Kodieh

Back onto nonseriousness, lets take a moment for our bro in the friend zone.

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No idea why but I thought of this when I read your post


http://youtu.be/iPYF2p-cGx8


Just replace danger with friend :D

Did you profess and get shot down? If not, and you're thinking she doesn't like you back because of obscure comment ("You're such a great friend!") then have a more direct conversation about it. If direct conversation happened, and you know for sure, then I'd say give yourself some space. Unrequieted feelings can grow into some pretty big resentment that can hurt the both of you, so it's up to you whether or not you can stay friends.

She is an old friend i lost touch with when I moved away and the past few months been talking. We hung out last night and some stuff happened and yup...

You sir have a problem that I'm terrible with answering, if you all are having some "fun time" together then I'd say she got some feelings for you but if your having just fun times together with no real physical contact I'd say she's got that friendship wall up and gate is closed. But like I said I suck at this problem girls are hard to read too confusing i tell girls all the time to say what they mean and mean what they say no riddles or word games. I hope everything works out for you tho what ever comes from it.