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  • 10-13-2010, 02:13 AM
    Gadsden
    My apologies
    In recent history, I reacted poorly to criticisms from others on this site. Please allow me to explain:

    As to my "Cold and callous" disposition:

    Being a veteran of the War in Iraq, I am no stranger to pain and suffering. It is very likely that my experience on the battlefield clouded my judgement as to the wellbeing of the animal in my care.

    Also please consider that I am an economics major; though It seems outwardly that I have no compassion, I do! I think initially in decimals and dollars, it takes me a couple of days to process emotion. It's just the way I'm wired. I am definitely a man of compassion and love. On the civilian side I am an elementary school teacher. I care for my canine pets and well as my herps.

    The situation with Gadsden (My snake) came at a very inopportune time. They recently changed the laws in my state as to tire tread for licensing and registering vehicles. I was unaware as to the change, so the need for new tires on my truck was a very unpleasant surprise which drained my emergency fund. Two days after, I first discovered my snakes condition (I initially thought that it was a mouse that hadn't fully digested, and thought it no big deal). when I discovered the severity of what it was, I immediately came to this forum, called friends, vets, local pet stores, and checked Facebook for options. Please do not confuse an unfortunate sequence of timing for unwillingness to help. Yes, I think in terms of decimals and dollars, but I am no heartless animal.

    I would very much like to apologize to everyone for my actions and words.

    A bit of good news: Gadsden's condition is improving! With a thorough regiment of soaking, sugar-water and anti-biotic ointment, along with removing all substrates and anything that could further irritate the prolapse, and keeping the temperature at a slightly warmer than normal level and heightened humidity, Gadsden seems to be on the rebound.

    Thank you for your guidance direction and concern for my pet.
  • 10-13-2010, 02:23 AM
    English-bulldog
    :)

    Alright!
  • 10-13-2010, 02:30 AM
    Kyle1989
    Re: My apologies
    No problem but next time you should watch how you say things like that. Glad to hear it's getting better.
  • 10-13-2010, 02:54 AM
    coldblooded
    Hey, I just read through your thread and I saw where you were not sure how much sugar should be added to the water.

    I have never dealt with a snake prolapsing but I have with a gecko (hemipene prolapse). The sugar solution should be nearly syrup consistency and just make sure to keep the area moist so it doesn't die and become necrotic. As long as the flesh is still looking healthy (not turning strange colors or black, etc) it may not need surgery and may go back in on its own (I am not a vet and haven't seen the injury so take that with a grain of salt..)

    I hope that helps, good luck!
  • 10-13-2010, 06:27 AM
    rabernet
    Re: My apologies
    Thank you for your post and for letting us understand a bit more about where you were coming from. :)

    I'm glad to hear that Gadson is making improvements!

    Oh - and thank you for your service! :salute:
  • 10-13-2010, 10:54 AM
    emiebeth
    I'm really glad he's doing better! And as said above, thank you for trying to help us understand better where you were coming from. I think sometimes people (myself included) forget that not everyone is like us, whether that's in regards to financial stability or just personality, and that our experiences can make us react to a crisis in different ways.

    I hope Gadsden continues to heal. I'll be praying for him! *hugs* And as Rab said, thank you very much for your service =)
  • 10-13-2010, 11:36 AM
    Gadsden
    Re: My apologies
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by coldblooded View Post
    Hey, I just read through your thread and I saw where you were not sure how much sugar should be added to the water.

    I have never dealt with a snake prolapsing but I have with a gecko (hemipene prolapse). The sugar solution should be nearly syrup consistency and just make sure to keep the area moist so it doesn't die and become necrotic. As long as the flesh is still looking healthy (not turning strange colors or black, etc) it may not need surgery and may go back in on its own (I am not a vet and haven't seen the injury so take that with a grain of salt..)

    I hope that helps, good luck!

    I found direction for that on this site. It is DEFINITELY helping! Thank you for your clarification though! :)
  • 10-13-2010, 11:37 AM
    Gadsden
    Re: My apologies
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emiebeth View Post
    I'm really glad he's doing better! And as said above, thank you for trying to help us understand better where you were coming from. I think sometimes people (myself included) forget that not everyone is like us, whether that's in regards to financial stability or just personality, and that our experiences can make us react to a crisis in different ways.

    I hope Gadsden continues to heal. I'll be praying for him! *hugs* And as Rab said, thank you very much for your service =)

    Your prayers are always welcome! Thank you so much!

    As for my service it is my pleasure; I love what I do. :)
  • 10-13-2010, 11:59 AM
    Igby
    Good. I hope that he heals quickly and without much difficulty.
  • 10-13-2010, 11:25 PM
    seeya205
    It takes a big man to admit he is wrong! :bow:
  • 10-13-2010, 11:48 PM
    Generationshell
    Re: My apologies
    I forgive you :)

    Well only if you promise to give us updated pics until he is full healed :]

    I understand where you are coming from. Although Im sure my circumstances couldnt compare to yours, having gone to war and what not.

    But My snake actually helped me through my depression and PTS. An impulse buy that sorta turned into a blessing. He calms me and helps w my anxiety.
    Maybe your snake will turn into a blessing for you also.

    Animals of any species can aid in rehabilitation.

    But thank you for the apology!
  • 10-14-2010, 01:09 AM
    Gadsden
    Re: My apologies
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Generationshell View Post
    I forgive you :)

    Well only if you promise to give us updated pics until he is full healed :]

    I understand where you are coming from. Although Im sure my circumstances couldnt compare to yours, having gone to war and what not.

    But My snake actually helped me through my depression and PTS. An impulse buy that sorta turned into a blessing. He calms me and helps w my anxiety.
    Maybe your snake will turn into a blessing for you also.

    Animals of any species can aid in rehabilitation.

    But thank you for the apology!

    How do I upload photos to this site?

    Though his condition is improving, it is still much worse than I would like it to be. It has been said that 1/4 inch is about the most you want to let a prolapse get before your pet needs veterinary care. His is far beyond that(1/2 - 5/8 in). Through sources other than this site, I have been told it is possible to get the prolapse to retreat from this stage, but not very common. I am praying that it can retreat with what I powers I have available to me. If not, I pray that I can keep him alive, and as comfortable as possible until pay day (25th of October! YIKES!), or the sources I have contacted can find a better care-taker for Gadsden that can afford the immediate costs to take him to a vet.

    I ask all of you for your prayers in Gadsden's recovery, health and luck!
  • 10-14-2010, 01:15 AM
    Sammy412
    You got it....main thing is, keep it moist and clean...sounds like you got that covered. You never know, miracles happen every day:)
  • 10-14-2010, 06:43 AM
    dr del
    Re: My apologies
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Gadsden View Post
    How do I upload photos to this site?

    Hi,

    Well the first thing is to get them hosted somewhere online.

    You can put them in your gallery here - this tutorial is a bit old but the basic procedure is the same I think.

    And here is another one in video form that might also help.

    You can also use a site like http://photobucket.com/

    They should also have tutorials to help you.

    If you still have trouble just ask any member of staff and we will do our best to get you sorted. :gj:


    dr del
  • 10-15-2010, 05:27 PM
    Gadsden
    Thought I don't have time to upload photos at this moment, I would like to give those of you that are concerned an update:

    I am continued with a thorough regiment of soaking, gentle cleaning, application of anti-biotic ointment, Vaseline, sugar-water and Cortozone (in no particular order, just as needed by observation) to the affected site. the prolapse is shrinking and looks healthy. No dying or rotting flesh!. retraction is slow, but it is happening!
  • 10-15-2010, 05:28 PM
    Gadsden
    Also, as my experience and knowledge with snakes expands, I am finding I want another snake. I am particularly interested in axanthics. Does anyone here breed, or know a good breeder?
  • 10-15-2010, 10:33 PM
    Vypyrz
    Re: My apologies
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Gadsden View Post
    How do I upload photos to this site?

    To post photos, first, you will need to upload your photos to your Gallery on this website or to a photo hosting website like Photobucket, Flickr, etc...

    -Open up the Reply window to the thread you want to post them in.

    -Open a separate internet browser window and go to the site where your photos are posted.

    -Usually below the photo, you will find some URL links or codes. Look for the one that begins with [IMG] or sometimes it may be listed as "BB Code". Highlight and copy this entire code then paste it in your "Reply" window.

    -Click on the "Preview Post" button to see if the photo becomes visible. If it does click "Submit Reply". If not, then double check that you copied the right code or the entire code. The end of the code should be [/IMG]...

    Here is a link to a video tutorial also. Hope this helps...

    http://ball-pythons.net/forums/showthread.php?t=32416
  • 10-19-2010, 11:28 PM
    Gadsden
    To those that are concerned about Gadsden's condition:

    He is constantly improving. His prolapse has retreated about a quarter of an inch over the passed 3 days. it is retreating faster and faster every day. I am soaking 10 minutes a day, cleaning gently with mild soap and water, applying sugar water, anti-biotic ointment, Vaseline, and Hemorrhoid cream to the prolapse. Gadsden is in good spirits. It is odd that his reactions are far more complex than I would have imagined; He seems to be displaying gratitude toward me.

    Thank you all for your forgiveness and understanding. I need a good group of people like this on my side.
  • 10-20-2010, 10:28 PM
    Gadsden
    GADSDEN'S PROLAPSE HAS COMPLETELY RETRACTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I am going to continue applying anti-biotic ointment to his vent to ensure that no bacteria infest the site. I will also soak him once a day for 10 minutes. He has started to shed again. I am going to wait a few days to feed him as well to ensure that everything is as it should be before I put any pressure on his digestive tract.
  • 10-21-2010, 01:40 AM
    Generationshell
    Omg that is GREAT GREAT GREAT news!!!!
    Now you HAVE to post a pic of the guy :] please!!
  • 10-21-2010, 01:48 AM
    Sammy412
    I am SO glad to hear He is doing so great!!:banana: Can't wait to see his photo:)
  • 10-21-2010, 08:56 PM
    Gadsden
    Re: My apologies
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Generationshell View Post
    Omg that is GREAT GREAT GREAT news!!!!
    Now you HAVE to post a pic of the guy :] please!!

    Is is possible to post a photo using Facebook as the pic host site?
  • 10-21-2010, 09:14 PM
    Gadsden
    I tried to post some pictures through the gallery and it said I don't have sufficient privilege.
  • 10-21-2010, 09:41 PM
    bsash
    I am so glad to hear that he recovered! Congratulations on such great care and I am sure he appreciates everything you did for him.
  • 10-22-2010, 06:23 AM
    dr del
    Re: My apologies
    Hi,

    Well the first thing is to get them hosted somewhere online.

    You can put them in your gallery here - this tutorial is a bit old but the basic procedure is the same I think.

    And here is another one in video form that might also help.

    You can also use a site like http://photobucket.com/

    They should also have tutorials to help you.

    It sounds as though you may have forgotten to select members galleries. Also I would avoid using something you have to log into to view the pics ( like facebook).

    If you still have trouble just ask any member of staff and we will do our best to get you sorted. :gj:


    dr del
  • 10-22-2010, 06:41 AM
    rabernet
    Re: My apologies
    I personally use Photobucket to host all my photo's. Then I copy the IMG tag under the photo that looks like this when you paste it into your message:

    [IMG]http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e90/rabernet/DeMeyer%20Pastel/g_pastel_002.jpg[/IMG]

    but then looks like this when you submit your message:

    http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e9...pastel_002.jpg
  • 10-24-2010, 03:44 PM
    Gadsden
    When I try to upload into my gallery on this site it gives me the following message:

    "Gadsden, you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons:

    1. You're trying to respond to an ad. As noted on Rule #4 in the Ad Rules, ad responses are disabled. (Please contact the ad poster privately)
    2. Your user account may not have sufficient privileges to access this page. Are you trying to edit someone else's post, access administrative features or some other privileged system?
    3. If you are trying to post, the administrator may have disabled your account, or it may be awaiting activation."
  • 10-24-2010, 03:49 PM
    dr del
    Re: My apologies
    Hi,

    And you're definately selecting "members gallery" from the drop down list of where you are trying to post it?


    dr del
  • 10-24-2010, 06:56 PM
    Gadsden
    I go to Gallery>My Images at the top it says Gadsden's images. I click the "add image" button and proceed. After selecting the file and agreeing to the terms of use I click upload and it gives me that message.
  • 10-24-2010, 07:34 PM
    dr del
    Re: My apologies
    Hmmm,

    It works when I try it so the process is still ok. And you're definately selecting "members galleries"? as you still have to even from that page.

    What size and format is the picture you are trying to upload?

    Can you upload it to photobucket?


    dr del
  • 10-24-2010, 07:40 PM
    smoffler
    Use imageshack.us if you don't wanna create a photobucket acc.

    sent by two homing pigeons!!
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