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  • 05-12-2010, 04:01 PM
    ballpythonluvr
    tough times...tough decisions
    I have not been on the forums now for some time. I hit a rough spot in my life and I had to make a few decisions. One of those decisions was to rehome my snakes. I am struggling financially right now and I really didn't want to put my snakes through the ringer so I made sure they went to a very good home. I gave them to a friend of mine that has a collection of 31 ball pythons. I miss those snakes so much! I have decided to step out of the hobby for a little while unitl I can get things straightened out in my life. I will still be here on the forums learning from all of you as I have in the past. There is a lot going on in my life besides just financial issues but I won't bore all of you with the details. I will never give up on having ball pythons again, it's just that right now is really not a good time for keeping them.
  • 05-12-2010, 04:04 PM
    mainbutter
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    Good luck getting everthing in order.

    The best thing to do in these situations is to find a good friend or family member who can take them in, and possibly give you the opportunity to reclaim them once again in the future once things settle, so I think you made the right choice.
  • 05-12-2010, 04:10 PM
    mommanessy247
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    aw i wondered why you disappeared. hope you have better luck soon.
  • 05-12-2010, 04:20 PM
    Boanerges
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    Very, very sorry to hear all this :( I hope things turn around for you soon!!!
  • 05-12-2010, 06:50 PM
    4theSNAKElady
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    Aww Christine! You should have told me...I could have helped you to! :hug:
  • 05-12-2010, 08:18 PM
    Elise.m
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    Aw, sorry to hear that Christy. I've been wondering where you were! Hope everything is ok. If you ever need someone to listen, I'm here!
  • 05-12-2010, 08:45 PM
    PurplePython
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    "I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know that just to be alive is a grand thing."
    -- Agatha Christie

    "One ceases to recognize the significance of mountain peaks if they are not viewed occasionally from the deepest valleys."
    -- Dr. Al Lorin

    "The only easy day, was yesterday."
    -- Unknown

    "There's gon' be some stuff you gon' see
    that's gon' make it hard to smile in the future.
    But through whatever you see,
    through all the rain and the pain,
    you gotta keep your sense of humor.
    You gotta be able to smile through all this bullspit.
    Remember that."
    -- Tupac Shakur

    ^^ Inspirational Quotes for you. Good luck.
  • 05-12-2010, 08:52 PM
    bsash
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    I hope things work out for the best for you.
  • 05-12-2010, 08:53 PM
    exiled reptile
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by PurplePython View Post
    "I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know that just to be alive is a grand thing."
    -- Agatha Christie

    "One ceases to recognize the significance of mountain peaks if they are not viewed occasionally from the deepest valleys."
    -- Dr. Al Lorin

    "The only easy day, was yesterday."
    -- Unknown

    "There's gon' be some stuff you gon' see
    that's gon' make it hard to smile in the future.
    But through whatever you see,
    through all the rain and the pain,
    you gotta keep your sense of humor.
    You gotta be able to smile through all this bullspit.
    Remember that."
    -- Tupac Shakur

    ^^ Inspirational Quotes for you. Good luck.

    true dat. hope things take a turn for the best.
  • 05-12-2010, 10:45 PM
    Ginevive
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    I can relate somewhat. I sold all but one of my snakes (had about 30 at one time, when I was breeding) for financial and moving reasons. Maybe eventually you can get back into the game; there is hope, as now I am in the position to buy more snakes. It seems to me that you did the right thing for everyone involved; it was a mature decision on your part.
  • 05-13-2010, 09:27 AM
    j_h_smith
    Re: tough times...tough decisions
    If you did what was best for your snakes, you are a good person. Far too many times, people will only think of themselves when it comes to their pets. The pets suffer, but somehow the owner doesn't recognize that, and think everything is okay.

    Good Luck!
    Jim Smith
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