horrible.....

OK,,,,, had to come back...... im SURE THAT THIS IS TRUE LOVE,,,,,, but its getting to thepointofTROLLINGyall:petting:.............................
spooky

Something stinks around here...

alright so he was awake when I got there he broke his radius/ulna and fractured a rib they said the shock just made him pass out I was there for about 10 minutes yet again started crying he wont be able to leave till they fix him up he has his mother and sister there so Im not needed right now...anyway Im going to go talk to him in the morning when no one else is there Im kind of better now that I saw him and he said he still loves me but hes just tired haha

I'm kind of bugged that i just read through 8 pages only to see your most recent post basically implying that you're going back to him. :confused::confused::confused:

Best of luck.:gj:

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Did he just crash his car, into a pole or into a tree or something?

Man, I may get flamed for saying this but is there ANY chance that he he did it on purpose?? And made sure not to hit anything too severely (so to not kill himself, of course). This way, he could MAKE SURE that you would see him, and that you would have a greater chance of taking him back??
This could be WAY, WAY off but it is a possibility and something does stink around here.

Smells a bit fishy?

I just read all 9 pages and I can relate to your situation. I believe it's possible you can make your relationship work but you need to make sure he doesn't control your life.

My first real relationship lasted almost 5 years and I kept making excuses for him too. It eventually reached the point where my family no longer liked him and he was basically controlling everything. It's taken me a long time to get over that relationship (close to 2 years), but I am a much better person for it. Life goes on after first loves, sometimes the first one isn't always the best one.

I'm sorry to hear that he crashed his car and is hurt, but that's not a good reason to get back together with him. If you do decided to get back together with him you need to make sure it's a healthy relationship. There is a huge difference between an ultimatum and a compromise. DON'T let him control you. You need to have your own hobbies and your own life before you can be in a healthy relationship.

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Originally Posted by Kinra

I'm sorry to hear that he crashed his car and is hurt, but that's not a good reason to get back together with him. If you do decided to get back together with him you need to make sure it's a healthy relationship. There is a huge difference between an ultimatum and a compromise. DON'T let him control you. You need to have your own hobbies and your own life before you can be in a healthy relationship.

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Exactly. Having your own life and interests is very important in any relationships, he needs to support your hobbies and you need to support his, even if they are not the same! If you can make it work, great, but don't go back because of guilt. Also we don't know each other but if you need someone to rant at or just listen you can message me. I am up late most nights.

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:colbert:

Did he just crash his car, into a pole or into a tree or something?

Man, I may get flamed for saying this but is there ANY chance that he he did it on purpose?? And made sure not to hit anything too severely (so to not kill himself, of course). This way, he could MAKE SURE that you would see him, and that you would have a greater chance of taking him back??
This could be WAY, WAY off but it is a possibility and something does stink around here.

Smells a bit fishy?

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Seems like too much for a simple coincidence...

Im not sure but he kind of asked me to leave till they patch him up so I dont really think he did it on purpose, he crashed is car sliding sideways (driver seat) into a foot thick concrete slab where there used to be a welcome to galesburg sign...lol his sister was joking with him saying it was almost a welcome to heaven sign luckily he was only going 30 and the side air bags went off Im going to talk about it in the morning figure things out figure out what is wrong with his attitude/jealousy whatever you want to call it.

:banana::banana::banana: i called it!!!!:banana::banana::banana: