So, are my requirements too hard/high?

Me and my ex broke about 2 months ago. Do I know if it's 100% over!NO ,I was left with mixed signals...so im going to leave it be.

anyway,she was the exact opposite of me and well,believe it or not it was a great relationship,she just has some situations personally she needs to deal with. She is absolutely gorgeous and a good hearted person.

dont always look for something imparticular. Look for someone good that appreciates you for you. Don't set certain standards. You will meet someone when it's your time,patience bro..join POF to ease any sexual frustration,lol,if you get me. 100% free join!start sending messages and get yourself some action??best of luck bro

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join POF to ease any sexual frustration,lol,if you get me. 100% free join!start sending messages and get yourself some action??best of luck bro

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Be careful with POF lol.
This is what my boyfriends plan was when we went on our first date.
2 years later.....lol

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So randomly reading forum threads and came upon this one. I have to agree with a lot of points made already here. Mostly about compromise and respecting each others' hobbies.

I personally would like to find someone that shares some of my hobbies as well. It's nice to have things in common to talk about. Of course, I am willing to compromise, for sure. I'd take someone that's sane, funny, honest, respectful over someone that merely shares my hobby, but is a complete dolt.

I have to point this out to OP out there. There *are* girls out there that do have those hobbies! I'm one myself ;) I love reptiles (I've got .. uh.. 17 snakes now..) I play games, mostly online MMOs (Currently FFXIV), and I work nights.. to boot! Haha

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I work nights also plus my days off are during the week so it really makes it hard to go out and meet anyone. And when I do talk to women and they ask what hobbies I do and I tell them I have 19 snakes and many rats they tend to just go "UGH" and run! LOL Thought about just not telling them, but I dont like hiding things and being honest and up front. So ive stopped looking and figure hopefully one day someone will come into my life who likes or even can just cope with my reptiles.

Dude,don't be too picky. What matters most is how they treat you. I wish I can follow that advice myself,lol..

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Be careful with POF lol.
This is what my boyfriends plan was when we went on our first date.
2 years later.....lol

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Lol,idk,at the moment I'm getting down with 3 chicks,one a friend from back in the day,one I met in a deli like a couple months ago and another from POF...what it is now is all it will ever be...but I get ya.. I actually met my ex on POF. We were together for 3 years,but seems most chicks on that site had baggage or are nuts or don't know what they want. My ex had a ton of issues,I even offered to pay out of my pocket,think it was$75 a week for her to go to therapy,she refused,that's a whole nother story

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Lol,idk,at the moment I'm getting down with 3 chicks,one a friend from back in the day,one I met in a deli like a couple months ago and another from POF...what it is now is all it will ever be...but I get ya.. I actually met my ex on POF. We were together for 3 years,but seems most chicks on that site had baggage or are nuts or don't know what they want. My ex had a ton of issues,I even offered to pay out of my pocket,think it was$75 a week for her to go to therapy,she refused,that's a whole nother story

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Lol WHAT?!
I'm happy to say I'm not nuts nor do I have any baggage lol. Did I know what I wanted when I went on POF? Probably not. That's half the fun in figuring it out lol.

Also lol @ "getting down with 3 chicks"

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