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Shadowspider... that was the sweetest thing... thank you. I guess my belief that I am anything but pretty comes from my high school days when people openly taunted me and called me ugly... things like that are kinda hard to let drop.
I WISH my measurements were that small. Although they are that proportional. I have an hourglass figure that measures in decades. :)
But, FYI, when last I measured (which wasn't too long ago since I'm a seamstress) 48, 38, 48.
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I know what ridicule and taunting are like. :( Heck, even now I get it. If not because I'm albino, then because I'm a string bean in dier need of gaining at least 20 pounds.
I wish my measurements were as *large* as the ones I put in my other post. :D
People often only think of "too much" as a bad, or ugly thing because I guess it's more vocalized (everyone is "dieting" and that's the "thing" advertised these days). But no one seems to think/talk about those of us who are accused of being annorexic... even when we're not.
Yes, self esteem is a very fragile thing that is not easy to re-aquire once it's been damaged. I still struggle with it. I don't wear make up or plaster my hair anymore like I use to, but that is only because my husband honestly does not like make up and hairspray and has told me so in no uncertain terms on many occasions when I opted to "doll" myself up. :O
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I know what ridicule and taunting are like. :( Heck, even now I get it. If not because I'm albino, then because I'm a string bean in dier need of gaining at least 20 pounds.
I wish my measurements were as *large* as the ones I put in my other post. :D
People often only think of "too much" as a bad, or ugly thing because I guess it's more vocalized (everyone is "dieting" and that's the "thing" advertised these days). But no one seems to think/talk about those of us who are accused of being annorexic... even when we're not.
Yes, self esteem is a very fragile thing that is not easy to re-aquire once it's been damaged. I still struggle with it. I don't wear make up or plaster my hair anymore like I use to, but that is only because my husband honestly does not like make up and hairspray and has told me so in no uncertain terms on many occasions when I opted to "doll" myself up. :O
I hear ya! I was 6 foot 1, 145lbs goin into college. That's on the optimistic, just eaten and chugged a bunch of water just prior to stepping on the scale 145, and thats on a heavy workout/weight gaining diet and excercise... If I slacked at all, I was afraid the wind was going to blow me away. It didn't help that my best friends that played lacrosse/waterpolo/wrestling with me were jacked. Got passed over by gals on many occasions because I was the skinny guy in the group even though I outscored almost all of them in lacrosse. I am slowly but surely gaining weight now, but still on the skinny side.
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Get a desk Job Goose it is starting to kill me now...im being told its that time to hit the gym :(
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Heh, yeah... I know the teasing isn't restricted to us big people, but at times it seems we get the more cruel treatment.
As for the really skinny thing...any of you seen the pics I included of me and my BF?? He has that exact problem: 5' 11 1/2" and 148lbs. We sometimes joke that he would take some of my bulk if he could...
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Buff army pix work too... especially in greens.... with snakes essembled in various places around the pecks, quads and biceps. :D :carrot:
what a wonderful idea! i'm all for that! let's see 'em ben!
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what a wonderful idea! i'm all for that! let's see 'em ben!
***run's off to the 'gun store'*** :bolt:
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***run's off to the 'gun store'*** :bolt:
You keep your snakes at the gun store? :confused: :P
Just get the furry hat Ben... get the hat... get the hat!
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Here is a picture of one more bp net woman, but the gorgeous one is the one putting up with my drunk butt,
http://i193.photobucket.com/albums/z...g?t=1187250078
And a pic of that same patient beauty without me.
http://i193.photobucket.com/albums/z...g?t=1187250152
She may not be a forum member but puts up with me yacking about the site and snakes all day.