Re: Saddest Movie Scene Ever?
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Originally Posted by
MasonC2K
I guess I'll just have to go on not understanding it. I have to be completely overwhelmed emotionally to cry. I've cried at some funerals, when my grandmother died, when some old pets died, and my first happy tears when I got married.
When I watch a movie or TV show, I just don't get that emotionally involved. I mean, I can get excited, I can feel happy, I can feel a little scared, and I can even feel sad for some characters. But not to such an overwhelming extent that I lose control of my emotions.
I never get so excited that I jump up out of my seat and cheer.
I never get so scared that I get up an run out the theater.
It's just so hard for me to understand it as an adult. But I accept that others do cry at moves and such. My wife cries over next to nothing.
I can explain it.
You probably have close to zero empathy. It's just a social phenomenon that you may be immune to. Unfortunately, the typical personalities associated with a complete lack of empathy range from your 'loner' at the harmless end of the spectrum all the way to sociopaths :P
Just having a little fun at your expense.
Re: Saddest Movie Scene Ever?
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Originally Posted by
mainbutter
I can explain it.
You probably have close to zero empathy. It's just a social phenomenon that you may be immune to. Unfortunately, the typical personalities associated with a complete lack of empathy range from your 'loner' at the harmless end of the spectrum all the way to sociopaths :P
Just having a little fun at your expense.
Teehee!
But I am empathic...to real people. Just not fictional ones. :)
I have always blamed my emotional control on 2 things.
1) My Dad. He was Army and red-blooded full testosterone. I've seen him cry once. Ever.
2) Being picked on. I was picked on a lot for alot of reason as a kid. And I was taught to not start fights and to resolve conflicts peacefully. I had to learn how to control my emotions, especially my anger. So I guess that evolved into how I am today.
Even today, I can be a raging inferno on the inside and not show it.
Re: Saddest Movie Scene Ever?
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Originally Posted by
Wh00h0069
That's a great movie. BTW, I also love Iron & Wine.
Then you have great taste in things! :)