So. While out shopping me and my dad found this beautiful Columbian boa at a small petshop, adn weboth love it. It's captive bred and comes with vet records adn everything. So Now I got dad on my team.
I have taken the advice of stepping up on chores and such and it's going ok now. Also asling for her help such as 'is this a good deal for a new tank?'. We're going to go find one in a few weeks.
ANd perhaps the biggest heper was getting her to handle my bp. :D and see they aren't slimey and evil.
SHe hasn't said yes yet but I think soon she will.