My bp died!

Ok guys that's what I'm saying to yal.. calm it down!!! I'll never ask a question again that's for certain. There have been helpful ppl on here and I'll private message them bc they aren't being rude

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Originally Posted by hmba2211

Ok guys that's what I'm saying to yal.. calm it down!!! I'll never ask a question again that's for certain. There have been helpful ppl on here and I'll private message them bc they aren't being rude

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not being told what you want to hear =/= rude. literally not a single person in this thread has been rude.

you are not stupid. you did not make a mistake by posting. you absolutely need to keep asking questions because, from your OP, you have much more room to learn and grow. but first, you need to learn to accept the criticism and advice handed down from those of us with years of experience. you may not always get an answer you like, and advice may not always be packaged in a friendly light-hearted response, but i promise it will be an answer from someone trying to help you and your buddy out.

please stick around, keep asking questions, and LEARN! we're all here to learn and grow together, and that means you too. :)

Why dare you so against people asking about husbandry? You gave several red flags, it sounded like you were handling them a lot, keeping them together, and several other peoblems. I seriously doubt that if you didn't research enough to do these basic things that every thing else just happened to be perfectly on point. Stress is the reason people were saying not to "cuddle" a snake. That suggests that you handle them a lot even though they are very young. So seriously, if you want help, your husbandry has to be critiqued. As said earlier bad husbandry = bad health. If you don't like hearing that that doesn't make it bashing. It can not possibly hurt you for people to HELP YOU, however, it can hurt your snake or any new snake you might acquire in the future.

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Why dare you so against people asking about husbandry? You gave several red flags, it sounded like you were handling them a lot, keeping them together, and several other peoblems. I seriously doubt that if you didn't research enough to do these basic things that every thing else just happened to be perfectly on point. Stress is the reason people were saying not to "cuddle" a snake. That suggests that you handle them a lot even though they are very young. So seriously, if you want help, your husbandry has to be critiqued. As said earlier bad husbandry = bad health. If you don't like hearing that that doesn't make it bashing. It can not possibly hurt you for people to HELP YOU, however, it can hurt your snake or any new snake you might acquire in the future.

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Are* I have no idea why autocorrect keeps changing that.

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This has been, for very sad and unfortunate reasons, a very interesting thread to me.

I am struck at how so many people are trying to be helpful to the OP's situation and, also, with the responses of the OP. The failure to connect, it appears, is that the OP appears to be suffering from the "tunnel vision" that comes with traumatic loss and doesn't even recognize it, and that most of the folks replying to the OP's threads, while genuinely trying to help, do not appear to have factored that "tunnel vision" into their responses.

You are all discussing the same situation, but it's like you're coming at it from two different planes of existence. Anyone who has dealt with folks suffering from gut-wrenching grief knows exactly what I'm talking about. A bit over-dramatic? Perhaps. An opportunity for a relevant learning experience? Definitely.

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