pair flopping about inside the tub

Well at what point do you just assume that it is male even though it pops and probes female? She has now been popped and probed by four different people now, all saying definitely female.

I just had a male and female have a little battle last night(yes, I am absolutely sure of the sexes)...I really don't know why they'd do it, and I'm not all that concerned about it. They've locked before, I'm sure they will again.

As for "feelings" being hurt, don't worry about it...they really don't have any.