horrible.....

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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo

Wow I'm so done with this.

You're a lost cause.

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but im so close to 100 post,,,,,

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Originally Posted by mr.spooky

but im so close to 100 post,,,,,

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then ad another comment or go somewhere else

Has this thread turned into a lovers quarrel?? Really? For really real?

Can someone check the IPs/e-mail addys of these two?

Tell him you're keeping all your snakes....if he don't like it. Give him a detailed map to the door! SMH.....if my wife ever tried that. I'd be divorced!

EDIT: PLEASE RETHINK YOUR LIFE. Obviously you two need to talk things out, but why don't you sit down and think long and hard about what YOU really want out of life. I mean in the end you've gotta face up to your own choices. Trust me, I learned the hard way and now I'm trying to fix a lot of things that I f'ed up in my life.

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Originally Posted by spied

Dont get mad really Im not trying to piss you off. Your phone is off if you pay attention to it.....and no I dont have a ruptured spleen dipstick no one has ever said that. Who are you to judge if we belong together?! Lacey turn your phone on and answer my calls for once. I wont sleep till you talk to me alone. Dont pay attention to everyones comments on here just think for yourself?

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Ok, Mr Spooky may not be everyone's favorite person right now but to come on here and start calling the members names is NOT going to work in your favor one bit..

Python_Addict... I think you should start studying some human psychology.

The jealousy, controlling nature, the sudden turn-around to Don Juan when he thinks he's lost you,,,, are all dangerous signs.

He seems to be extremely emotionally insecure, codependent, and quite possibly could escalate into different forms of abuse in the future.

Your feelings for him is making is hard for you to see this and analyze it. You have been given some great advice by some great people on here. I really think what you need to do is not be codependent yourself.

Be on your own for awhile. DO leave him and cut communication. Not for a few weeks. For a long enough time for you to stop thinking and worrying about this 24/7. Go out and have some fun but don't go looking for another guy or anything. Just take time for you.

Weigh everything without the distraction. If he truly loves you, is not what I see him to be, and if it is meant to be, he should allow you to do this and leave you alone.

If it were me in this situation, his actions, and then reactions, would creep me out so bad that he would lose any and all chances he ever had.

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Originally Posted by spied

I dont want to lose you and Im glad to see you still love me just please forgive me I wasnt trying to get you to sell them off I just wanted you to see that your pushing me away.......Lacey I love you.

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Originally Posted by python_addict

Why havent you called me and told me that or texted me? But yet you can sit there and take time on your sisters phone to type all this out?? It would have been quicker to text me atleast......or waited till in the morning......go back to sleep for now

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Originally Posted by spied

Dont get mad really Im not trying to piss you off. Your phone is off if you pay attention to it.....and no I dont have a ruptured spleen dipstick no one has ever said that. Who are you to judge if we belong together?! Lacey turn your phone on and answer my calls for once. I wont sleep till you talk to me alone. Dont pay attention to everyones comments on here just think for yourself?

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Originally Posted by python_addict

Ok Im seriously now done with this thread. DJ stay off it my phone is on I have been texting a friend your calls didnt come through...maybe because your in the hospital??? Im not sure but it could be the low signal wouldnt you think? DJ dont piss people off on here too please? Ill talk to you in the morning like I said I would just go to sleep you need it and also they are only trying to help but this thread really has gone on long enough.....thanks everyone

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To me, it sounds like you've gone to the point of making another account and making this all sound resolved so the thread will die.

The responses you are giving to "each other" are too ... I dunno ... scripted? And it seems like someone who broke their arm WOULD NOT be able to text on a phone, nor be awake the night of and be able to type a lot on a phone. Seriously ... on sister's phone ... How do you know .... I just don't get it ...
Low signal in hospital ??? That doesn't happen in most areas.

Sorry, but I'm done here too. This is too fishy.

Not to mention, a guy like you have been describing wouldn't be "TERRIBLY AFRAID" of posting here. Really really really sounds like the same person, with the same grammar and the same sentence structure and the same blocks of text.

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Originally Posted by python_addict

Why havent you called me and told me that or texted me? But yet you can sit there and take time on your sisters phone to type all this out?? It would have been quicker to text me atleast......or waited till in the morning......go back to sleep for now

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There's no way that he's typing from his sister's phone or the hospital, since the IP that he posted from is identical to yours.

Time to 'fess up. What's really going on?

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Originally Posted by Jessica Loesch

To me, it sounds like you've gone to the point of making another account and making this all sound resolved so the thread will die.

The responses you are giving to "each other" are too ... I dunno ... scripted? And it seems like someone who broke their arm WOULD NOT be able to text on a phone, nor be awake the night of and be able to type a lot on a phone. Seriously ... on sister's phone ... How do you know .... I just don't get it ...
Low signal in hospital ??? That doesn't happen in most areas.

Sorry, but I'm done here too. This is too fishy.

Not to mention, a guy like you have been describing wouldn't be "TERRIBLY AFRAID" of posting here. Really really really sounds like the same person, with the same grammar and the same sentence structure and the same blocks of text.

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To be fair, texting is possible to do one handed. I've done it before, but it just takes a lot longer. With the hospital, it depends heavily on where you're at. Hospitals normally do have great reception, but there are areas where the infrastructure is designed to block cellphone signals. However, considering the two have the same ip, the point is moot.

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Originally Posted by rabernet

There's no way that he's typing from his sister's phone or the hospital, since the IP that he posted from is identical to yours.

Time to 'fess up. What's really going on?

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This seems to be proof that she needs a lot of help, and I'm not trying to say that in a mean way. It's just the truth.

Please, go seek help from a counselor/therapist/psychologist, or something of the sort. It seems like you really need it. It's nothing to be ashamed of, as I and (probably) many others here have seen ones in the past and maybe even in the present.

It'll be one of the best things you do to help yourself.

Over n' out.

same IP address? wth? and no I didnt just make up another account his account was made a while ago thats not even possible how can it have the same IP address? hes here right now with me he used one of my emails and my laptop to create it over 2 months ago but he wasnt using my computer I wasnt even using my computer last night i am right now though I was at another hospital last night to be watched while I sleep and im still freaking here as i said before this thread should be over cuz Im gong to work things out with him and probably get back with him go on with your lives everyone

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Ok, Mr Spooky may not be everyone's favorite person right now but to come on here and start calling the members names is NOT going to work in your favor one bit..

Python_Addict... I think you should start studying some human psychology.

The jealousy, controlling nature, the sudden turn-around to Don Juan when he thinks he's lost you,,,, are all dangerous signs.

He seems to be extremely emotionally insecure, codependent, and quite possibly could escalate into different forms of abuse in the future.

Your feelings for him is making is hard for you to see this and analyze it. You have been given some great advice by some great people on here. I really think what you need to do is not be codependent yourself.

Be on your own for awhile. DO leave him and cut communication. Not for a few weeks. For a long enough time for you to stop thinking and worrying about this 24/7. Go out and have some fun but don't go looking for another guy or anything. Just take time for you.

Weigh everything without the distraction. If he truly loves you, is not what I see him to be, and if it is meant to be, he should allow you to do this and leave you alone.

If it were me in this situation, his actions, and then reactions, would creep me out so bad that he would lose any and all chances he ever had.

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I dont want another guy every single person before him used me and left me they never lasted long i cant just go out and find another guy what if i end up in the same situation? I believe he trully does love me like i do him its extremely hard for me to be single if things dont go good ill just move away farther again and maybe that will help?

lol not everyone is the same, not everyone will leave you, and I honestly am sick of the woe is me at this point. We tried to help ....

and same ip address can't be made up. You said it yourself, you want this thread to be over, so why don't we just close this thread for her since she can't be honest anymore :-/

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its extremely hard for me to be single

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This is exactly one of the dangerous things that me and a couple other people tried to tell you about. That is NOT. HEALTHY.

You're not the only one with a bad life. I have no family to turn to, either. My childhood was a mess and I'm still trying to deal with it.
However, I don't NEED to be in a relationship. I just happen to be in one.

You need to fix this before you can ever have any hopes of being in a healthy relationship.

I think it's quite clear that both of you have some major problems. You're just going to enable each other to keep on having those problems, and everything is just going to get worse.
Seriously worse.

You can't be in a relationship until you fix yourself.


PS: I've been used, cheated on, and dumped out of the blue (after a 2 1/2 year, serious relationship). That doesn't mean that just because that has happened to me, I have no hope in the male sex. There are GOOD guys out there. It's quite clear that the guy you have is not treating you right and the relationship is very, very unhealthy and you're heading down a dangerous road.

Really people, I work for a police dept and see this all the time, she isn't leaving because of "I love him" syndrome. I'd stop posting things, since part of this sad condition is retaliation.

I wish you luck "Lacey" if this is a real post, I hope you don't end up like most of the women I talk to on a daily basis just like you...

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same IP address? wth? and no I didnt just make up another account his account was made a while ago thats not even possible how can it have the same IP address? hes here right now with me he used one of my emails and my laptop to create it over 2 months ago but he wasnt using my computer I wasnt even using my computer last night i am right now though I was at another hospital last night to be watched while I sleep and im still freaking here as i said before this thread should be over cuz Im gong to work things out with him and probably get back with him go on with your lives everyone

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It's clear the spied account was created some time ago and not done just for the sake of this thread. But it's also clear that in THIS thread, every single post made by python_addict and spied are from the same IP. Posts spread over several days...and multiple hospitals, apparently. Mmmm Hmmmm.

If you want to hang your laundry out in public and ask for advice on how to remove the stains, then people ARE going to judge. You didn't have to bring this game to a public forum. But you did. It's not going to just go away when you get tired of playing it.

I'm quite sure you are utterly mystified at all the matching IP's in this thread. But I can assure you, no one else is.

In the end....from OUR perspective, it's just a little internet forum. It's a forum dedicated to helping people take good care of their animals. And this thread is just a silly game someone decided to play.

From YOUR perspective though....something far more serious is going on, I suspect. It's your life, and this site is not equipped to fix whatever it is that's broken and drives you to play these sorts of games. I'm happy to help FROM PRIVATE, if you really want to try and fix anything.

I have to say after reading the entire thread, I am left wondering why. Wilomn was on point as always.

I suspect it all boils down to them wanting attention. I've seen it happen before.

Wow...... Now I feel like a dumb#*+ for giving you advice and telling my story. If you have to play games like this on here then your going to find yourself to be not so liked by others. We were all here to help you and give you the advice YOU asked for.
As for the " Boy friends " posts lol. Not only can you NOT hide an IP but the way they were typed were identical. In that I mean the absolute horrid grammar, misspelled words and lack of punctuation.

Hey Guys, let's remember that, in theory, she's 19 and from a crappy home. That much has been consistent for months.

If that's true then she's a kid with no one to teach her how to grow up into a good person. Without that training, with no examples of how to do it right, it's not that far out of line to see her here doing this.

I'm pretty much out but I do have some sympathy for this person. Either she really is struggling and we should catch her, or try to, as she falls, or she's a real piece of work who has played us.

I've been played before and while it stings, who does it really hurt?

I'm inclined, with my keen powers of observation and superhuman ability to see into the minds of those I've never met, to lean toward her being young and in this case stupid.

Hopefully she'll wise up soon and not have to go down the road that many of you have. But don't feel bad about sharing or caring. That was well done. It may not have worked this time, but maybe some seeds were planted. It doesn't matter either way because if you really meant what you said, then saying it sincerely was enough. If she doesn't follow up on offers of help or listen to those who have been where she is now, that's NOT anyone's problem who tried to help, it's hers.

It's all hers.

SO, thanks to those who tried to help, don't make it the last or only time, they don't all work out this way.

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Wow...... Now I feel like a dumb#*+ for giving you advice and telling my story. If you have to play games like this on here then your going to find yourself to be not so liked by others. We were all here to help you and give you the advice YOU asked for.
As for the " Boy friends " posts lol. Not only can you NOT hide an IP but the way they were typed were identical. In that I mean the absolute horrid grammar, misspelled words and lack of punctuation.

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Thanks ..that was exactly what I was trying to get at here.


And to the OP, sorry, but ip address tells no lies. Technology > You. Not trying to be rude, but it isn't possible any other way. Figure your S out and get back to us when you have thought things out.

wait? who said I was 19??? no im not and nothing is working so we decided to never talk again and im looking for a new boy toy for once my mother is coming over to go out to eat Im not even depressed over it i just needed reassurance i guess but its nice that hes dating another girl as of 2 hours ago......Anyway! yall can believe what you want i cant stand to be single so im gonna go hang out with a few guy friends that used to like me and see how it goes this really sucks absolutely sucks but tomorrow im going to have a session of retail therapy ok scratch that im crying now but whatever im not going to be on this site much anymore so everyone take care i really need food i havent ate since saturday morning if you all want to know who to avoid this is what he looks like
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yeah the picture is old but the only one i havent deleted yet things havent really changed much with him

NO MORE PITY CRAP i thank you all but the more i talk about it the worse i feel i need time off so i can move on or just...idk something has to happen though by every one i may perhaps be on in a couple weeks but i doubt it

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I hope by boy toy you mean therapist.
And I really mean that in the nicest way possible because you cannot SERIOUSLY be looking for another guy to drag into the drama that you have made us all aware of.

Posting his image and telling people to avoid him is pretty immature. This kinda drama is silly, and really doesn't belong here :rolleyes: