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Originally Posted by Adam_Wysocki
Some type of medical condition? :O
-adam
It's gotta be :O I think I've heard about guys like this before :confused:
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Originally Posted by Snakeman
i just respect girls.
I too have the utmost respect for women. I just dont always remember their names......no shame in that ;) :D
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Originally Posted by Snakeman
to the people here that are in a relationship/married, did the person you're with ever have a problem with you because you have snakes and other reptiles as pets? i ask this because sometimes i wonder if my tarantula/snake hobby might "scare off" the girls and thats probably why they get no interest in me.as friends sure but more than that,i dont think they think of me like that.
My husband is not a snake person, he had no idea when we got married that at some point I would want to have a snake which turned into 10 as of now, and not planning on stopping anytime soon :D .
The most important he loves me and whatever makes me happy is all that matter to him, as long as do not ask him to be involve with my snakes he is fine with the idea.
Being in a relationship is to be able to understand and support one another passion.
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Originally Posted by Snakeman
to the people here that are in a relationship/married, did the person you're with ever have a problem with you because you have snakes and other reptiles as pets? i ask this because sometimes i wonder if my tarantula/snake hobby might "scare off" the girls and thats probably why they get no interest in me.as friends sure but more than that,i dont think they think of me like that.
Ya know, I've had chicks freak out over em, but then I tell them they are harmless and make some snake joke and they are cool with them. Besides, a chick who wouldnt wanna be with you over some reptiles is as lame as a guy not wanting to be with a girl cause "I think she gained 5 pounds over the winter time."
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The best way to attract that certain someone, is to be happy with who you are and in what you are doing. I completely agree with Allison. If you are constantly 'looking' you won't project confidence because you're constantly worrying about what this or that person is thinking. Let it go, and don't worry. You're young, and the world is at your feet. ENJOY! :D
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Originally Posted by AkivaSmith
Snakeman,
You are too young to be worried about a girlfriend.
I agree 100%, The best thing you can do is "work on you". Get your education, save up some money, have yourself a car and get yourself your own apartment/house...and be yourself... Girls dig a guy that can take care of himself.
If you are currently "looking" Believe me, you'll have alot better results not looking for girls than when you are looking. Honestly though girls should be the last of your worries...and if you do find a girl who ultimately and genuinely cares about you she shouldn't worry about snakes and turantulas because that's one of your hobbies that mean alot to you and she should support that...
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Originally Posted by Adam_Wysocki
18? Jeessshhhhhh .... relax ... when I was 18 the only hobby I had was a little game called hit it and forget it ... BAM, there it is! ... DO WORK! ;) :sweeet:
-adam
With the amount STD's rapidly growing in america...
I don't think the "hit it and forget it game" is really the best idea... I've had my share of fun in my time... but seriously I can't tell you how much better it feels to have a great girl that's there for you the next morning that's going to be with you thru the good and bad vs. some girl who's already been with 2/3's of your graduating class and harbours 37+ std's.
I think what Adam was "really" meaning was that you should date and have fun with many girls and get a feel for what type of person you want to be with. Your 18 years old, you have plenty of time to find "that girl"...
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Originally Posted by tigerlily
The best way to attract that certain someone, is to be happy with who you are and in what you are doing. I completely agree with Allison. If you are constantly 'looking' you won't project confidence because you're constantly worrying about what this or that person is thinking. Let it go, and don't worry. You're young, and the world is at your feet. ENJOY! :D
Very very true! good posts here! :)
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Originally Posted by djslurp1200
I think what Adam was "really" meaning
Please don't try and interpret my posts ... I say what I mean and mean what I say.
-adam
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Originally Posted by Adam_Wysocki
Please don't try and interpret my posts ... I say what I mean and mean what I say.
-adam
Oh ok... so in that case "what adam is saying is" have sex with a girl and forget about her... "hit it and forget it"
who knows! you might even get lucky and add to the 1 in 4 statistic of people in America that have HPV.
:rockon:
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Originally Posted by djslurp1200
Oh ok... so in that case "what adam is saying is" have sex with a girl and forget about her... "hit it and forget it"
who knows! you might even get lucky and add to the 1 in 4 statistic of people in America that have HPV.
:rockon:
You're just barrels of fun today, aren't you!
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Originally Posted by djslurp1200
Oh ok... so in that case "what adam is saying is" have sex with a girl and forget about her... "hit it and forget it"
who knows! you might even get lucky and add to the 1 in 4 statistic of people in America that have HPV.
:rockon:
If you would learn how to comprehend what you read, you'd see that I posted about MY EXPERIENCES ... what I did when I was 18 ... and NEVER suggested, recommened, or offered that ANYONE should do what I do.
-adam
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Another thread getting close to being locked. Play nice, kids... :grouphug:
