No Tony what I am though is a Moderator on a forum that takes a lot of pride in it's ability to have fair rules, fairly enforced. Those rules enable all members to enjoy, learn and in the end be better caretakers of the creatures they keep in their collections. Occasionally much to our dismay we also act as online babysitters, not a thing any Mod or Admin here enjoys.
You seem to have missed the entire point Tony. Funny but I would bet that's a pretty common occurrence for you.