It's funny you say your bro is 11 cus I was 11 as well when I got my first bp, Raven! My dad was a big part in helping me clean her viv and feed her properly but Raven was great for me. She ate without any problems and I loved watching her grow and as I grew into a teenager, being able to care and raise her all on my own! Since they live to be like 30 getting one as a young kid/going teen is a gift to have a snake and be able to have as you grow up yourself!! I had a lot of pride in her. Anyways, haha, my vote is deff get a bp!!! Good luck getting your bro a new snake!! xx