cheating

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Originally Posted by Skiploder

I had you pegged as a male asian college student..................

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I wish I were one sometimes. LOL >_<;;

Hmmm so all kinds of advice on leave him or not...... I will put it like this.... I've cheated. It was retarded. I was young and stupid. Still no excuse. I've done it to multiple women multiple times. I'm not bragging. Please don't take it that way. What I have realized was that those women I wasn't truly in love with. I loved them but not in love with them. I even fought to keep one or two of them just to realize a couple months down the road I wasnt in love with them. However I have been married to the love of my life for 3 years now and the thought has never crossed my mind to sleep with anyone else. I have no desire for another woman. That is the way it should be imo. When you are IN love there is no urge for anyone else. So he cheated on you with 1 person. That you know of. How are you going to feel if it happens again and you don't find out until after you say "I do" at that point its a bit late to reconsider your choices. I say you are better off without him but it is your choice. Just think long and hard on it.

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Originally Posted by satomi325

I wish I were one sometimes. LOL >_<;;

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Male?

Asian?

Or a college student?

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Originally Posted by Skiploder

Male?

Asian?

Or a college student?

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The first one. I'm already the other two. ;p

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Originally Posted by satomi325

The first one. I'm already the other two. ;p

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Apparently there's a procedure that can take care of that little detail. Something called an addadictomy............

i think he loves you. guys are very sexual creatures. he went out of his way for you not to find out. so give him another chance. there's a lot of temptations out there. some are just too tempting.

There's a lot of psychology that has to work itself out here. You need to figure out why he cheated.

He didn't want you to find out. So, he obviously still wants you around in some capacity. However, it's up to you to decide if that capacity is healthy for you.

And that's exactly the terms that I would set forth. You stay away exactly as far and for however long as your mind, not your heart, tells you to.

If you just want to mess with him though, tell him you want a three-some with another guy 'cuz he cheated on you, then see what he says.

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Originally Posted by stickyalvinroll

i think he loves you. guys are very sexual creatures. he went out of his way for you not to find out. so give him another chance. there's a lot of temptations out there. some are just too tempting.

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Yep guys are sexual creatures. Are we now saying that Romeo here deserves some sort of break because he tried to hide it from her? Or does he deserve some sort of break because some some asses are just to tempting to not put a tap on - even if it means breaking the heart and destroying the trust of someone who loves you? Bull crap.

When you stop thinking about yourself and start having empathy for someone you love - like a wife or a girlfriend - the very idea of humiliating and hurting them by banging someone else becomes unthinkable.

If the OPs fiance is so shallow and so self absorbed that he can't rank her feelings and her self esteem above his own sexual desires, than that piece of crap deserves to be kicked to the curb.

There should be no piece of a$$ so tempting that it should cause you to lie and cheat to someone you love.

Period.

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Originally Posted by Skiploder

Wait.

You're a chick?

I had you pegged as a male asian college student..................or something along those lines.

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Wahhh? :confused: 37 year old, married white female mommy, lol. :p

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Originally Posted by DrDooLittle

Wahhh? 37 year old, married white female mommy, lol.

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Waaaahhh 40-something year old, married sorta white male daddy.