Opinions?

If she's still eating, then that's a good sign that she isn't gravid. Most girls tend not to eat when pregnant. Of course, there are exceptions, but the general consensus is that they go off feed.

Also, try palpating her to see if you can feel any eggs. Hold her up vertically and press your fingers down her belly. If she really is gravid, you should be able to feel the eggs.

I tried. i felt one hard thing and then not really anything else.
If it so happens that she is preggo. what is the best way in your opinion to split the eggs or breeding loan?
I have the more expensive animal and he is the one who really wanted to incubate the eggs even though i did not mind doing it.
If an odd number of eggs or if there was an even number of eggs.
He is trying to say if i get the pick of the litter then that is the only animal i get...hmm is that right?

With the information you provided I honestly think she is not gravid. You said she was hanging out on the cool side and is still eating.. Usually a gravid girl will seek the warm end and refuse food. Although she does look rather large I am more inclined to say she is just backed up. But I guess we will find out soon! :P