new owner.. ? re:handling

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Originally Posted by musclebabe

LOL, well i HAVE been handling him and he ate another 2 mice tonight, so i guess hes not stressed. Have been talking with several breeders and have gotten some excellent advice.

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That's great to hear but just because he is still eating now doesn't mean he isn't stressed out at all and its not like any animal can just come out and tell you and there can be more side effects than just not eating.

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Originally Posted by f4n70m

Nah see she was in chat we was nice to her. She got all mad said we was rude telling her that everything she did was wrong. Which is not how we said it. So after that yes i may have been a little rude after how she acts :rolleyes:

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Just because you feel someone was rude to you doesn't mean you should be rude to them.

If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. This will get you further then retaliating every time someone says something you don't like.

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Originally Posted by f4n70m

Good for you. Dont want to sound rude but i could care less. You came in chat seeking advise. We told you ways to fix your husbandry and make it so your snake would not be stressed you took it as we were out to get you and that were rude for telling you that you have done everything wrong.. There is nothing wrong with holding him after he settles in.

You do what u want. But when he stresses out i will tell u i told you so :gj:

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yes u do sound rude. Your advice was very harsh and you showed no kindness or empathy, but i guess u are what u are. I dont need advice from YOU, so lets just let it be, ty

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Originally Posted by elise.m

one thing you should keep in mind... The more rude and judgmental you are to someone, the more they're going to rebel against your advise. She's coming here for advice. Alot of people that are new to the hobby will come here, and they will all ask the same questions. If the members were rude to you like you were to her, would you have stuck around and followed our advise?

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my point exactly elise, thank you so much for recognizing the lack of empathy.

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Originally Posted by f4n70m

nah see she was in chat we was nice to her. She got all mad said we was rude telling her that everything she did was wrong. Which is not how we said it. So after that yes i may have been a little rude after how she acts :rolleyes:

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mike , im sorry but you were rude and mean, and i got confirmation of that from a few peeps. No need to "tell" me what to do. Offer advice and leave it at that.... No need to shoveit down newbies throats

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Originally Posted by chasedandbeaten

that's great to hear but just because he is still eating now doesn't mean he isn't stressed out at all and its not like any animal can just come out and tell you and there can be more side effects than just not eating.

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thank you for your personal opinion. I will take that into consideration

hmmmmmmmmmm

Can i ask you a question?

Why do you feel the need to make 1 post for every quote?

You can put all 5 quotes in one post. Its extremely annoying and i think your just trying to get ur post count up

Pathetic

Mike,

Not every one automatically knows about the multiquote button ( https://ball-pythons.net/forums/imag...iquote_off.gif ) that lets you quote multiple posts. :rolleyes:


dr del

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Originally Posted by f4n70m

Can i ask you a question?

Why do you feel the need to make 1 post for every quote?

You can put all 5 quotes in one post. Its extremely annoying and i think your just trying to get ur post count up

Pathetic

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Actually I've seen alot of people do that. Most of the time (like this instance) it's new people who haven't gotten the feel of the website.

She's new! Give her a break. Some of the people that have been on this website for a while don't know all the features.