My first herp was a bp. My second was a leo. Back then I had the "I want one of everything" attitude. A couple months into having the leo, I got another ball, and another, and another and another. I realized what my true passion was. I did have to give up my leo. I actually ended up trading him for another ball. It was tough to do any I still think about him all the time.
An alternative to "giving him up" per say, is to give him to someone close to you, a friend or relative, that would want him. Then you would know he is in good hands and you could always see him again.