Well congrats on your first BP and that's nice friends you have getting you on for your birthday! Looks like a lovely one too. :)
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As far as the word "balls", well you sort of get used to talking about balls and asking someone what size rack they have or if they popped sperm plugs and....well...put it this way...when a non-snake person overhears your phone call....you get some REALLY odd looks. :rofl: