I am so upset...

Thanks Emily.

Very true. I did end up with some lovely females, and blessed that they are all healthy and haven't had a single major problem with them. Other than the fact that one of them failed to grow and certain part :D

ahh that's so frustrating! Its no fun to take back a promise that you made based on someone else... but like mlededee said, having all females is a bad problem to have...

Justin

Aww sweetie, as someone who has the same issues with my father, I know it was not so much about the crestie. I am sorry he let you down again, but I totally understand the hope you hold out. I sadly don't hold out hope anymore and that is a hard thing. I truly hope that you and your father can have a relationship. ((()))

Wow; are you sure that we are not sisters from the same dad? my dad used to do things like that all the time; say that he'd pick me up from my mom's for the weekend, then leave me hanging with my bags all packed and never show up and vanish for 2 weeks.. Now we are relatively closer but I live my life, he lives his; we visit maybe once a month or so and things are pretty cool.
I know, it sucks bigtime. I agree that you have to take things from certain people with a grain of salt (or with some people, a few pounds of salt...)

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Originally Posted by catawhat75

Aww sweetie, as someone who has the same issues with my father, I know it was not so much about the crestie. I am sorry he let you down again, but I totally understand the hope you hold out. I sadly don't hold out hope anymore and that is a hard thing. I truly hope that you and your father can have a relationship. ((()))

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I hope that doesn't happen, I mean not holding out hope anymore. I love him, he is my dad. He has done some terrible, I MEAN TERRIBLE things to me that are unforgivable in to most people and I still give him every chance in the world. I too hope we can turn things around. It just gets so old, heartbreaking and you kind of get numb to it. Thankfully though I have two wonderful grandfathers, an outstanding uncle and the most wonderful husband any woman could ask for. I never once thought that all men were like him. Just one out of every few...

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Originally Posted by Ginevive

Wow; are you sure that we are not sisters from the same dad? my dad used to do things like that all the time; say that he'd pick me up from my mom's for the weekend, then leave me hanging with my bags all packed and never show up and vanish for 2 weeks.. Now we are relatively closer but I live my life, he lives his; we visit maybe once a month or so and things are pretty cool.
I know, it sucks bigtime. I agree that you have to take things from certain people with a grain of salt (or with some people, a few pounds of salt...)

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We must be lol. He used to do the exact same thing to me a lot. Isn't weird that still after all the things they put us through that we still let them into our lives?