Re: how to deal with an ex
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Originally Posted by DSGB
its so hard though. i have tried to just not call her but it never lasts.
Yes it is. Ive been there. Trust me. Keep your mind away from that. Do something productive like build a rack or cage. Eventually you will forgot about her and dont care.
**take everything that you own that reminds you of her and put it away in a dark place***
I was seeing this one girl for 3months before I went to bootcamp and I missed her so much. I wrote her several letters and she only wrote to me 2 or 3times. When I came back she was doing the same thing your ex was doing and I stopped calling her.
its hard. I still think about it once in awhile, but man! DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY GIRLS ARE OUT THERE LOOKING FOR A CARING GUY THAT ACTUALLY CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS! A lot.
So BE STRONG!
Re: how to deal with an ex
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Originally Posted by DSGB
to be honest i dont even know where to go to meet girls
Craigslist has a unique adult sextion.... :8:
Re: how to deal with an ex
i appreciate it. im gonna try my hardest not to call her anymore. its like a habbit ya know? gotta quit her and cigarettes. tough stuff.
Re: how to deal with an ex
Delete her number from your cell phone.
One thing I did when my g/f of 2 years dumped me was I consumed myself with the hobbies and things I enjoyed the most. I hung out with a lot of my friends that were older and understood what I went through...we had a lot of poker nights and such...that stuff is great, and really helps you to move forward.
Re: how to deal with an ex
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Originally Posted by nathanledet
Craigslist has a unique adult sextion.... :8:
Lol. Go there too. But other places my be schools, parks(read a book on a bench and compliment someone..then start a conversation), malls( as a girl for help), reptile shop(a girl that enjoys the hobby is a plus), etc...There a plethora of places.
Re: how to deal with an ex
yeah ive just been out of the game for a while. i would LOVE LOVE LOVE to meet a girl who loves ball pythons as much as i do. i know theres one out there for me. wish me luck guys.
Re: how to deal with an ex
They are out there man...you can count on that.
You won't know till you date them...Ideally, what I would look for would be an open minded person. and by open minded, I mean a girl that may not have any encounters with reptiles of any sort, but won't say something snotty like "oh my gosh they're so gross i don't see why anyone would want that"....CHECK PLEASE!
A girl that shows a little bit of interest in your hobbies for which you have a passion for is the type of person you want to be with. You can share those passions with her, and certainly she can open up and share some of her hobbies with you as well. I like to think, opposites attract.
Re: how to deal with an ex
opposites attract thats true. me n my ex were to much alike and we both always had to have the last word. well its late n i gotta work in the morning. thanks for the advice everyone. -Billy
Re: how to deal with an ex
wow... u already go lots of great advice so i'll just say good luck and have fun!
Re: how to deal with an ex
i had a similar situation as you.. quiet similar... except i allowed the mind games to last .. um.. yea like 7months.... honestly dude it's hard to walk away. it just never felt right.. but basically dude you just got to talk with her straight up and just start off with "where do we stand?" and say what you feel. if that can't clear everything, then well you cleared all that's on your mind and should feel better walking away. i know i sure did. best of luck to you man.
