Thank you all for the motivating words. I am super excited to be a dad, and I have been trying to be a lot more patient the last couple days. On the car situation, I just had a good deal plopped on my lap for a 2000 Subaru Legacy...got lots of miles, but it runs and drives great and the engine has been taken care off...good thing is I should be able to pay for it out right so no need for a loan....the guy is suposed to come see me the next couple days when the other guy who went to look at it gives his offer. Hopefully I can get it because other than some rust and dents it's a solid car. Plus it's AWD which is what I was looking for...