Ugh, new dating standards

Oh NO!!! I am OCD about being on time and if I am not on time I am grumpy and immediately letting you know that I will be as close to on time as humanly possible lol but I don't typically wear makeup and I wear one pair of clothes a day. I dress nice, but don't overdo it because I just don't have the patience and love my sleep time waaaaay more than putting on makeup

I do my damnedest to be early if at all possible. You're late, if you're on time. You're on time, if you're early.

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The beauty in the breakup is the ability to refine ones interests and ideas in partnership. Sometimes we have to see the bad before we can understand the good that can be found out there. Glad to see you're refining your ideas and becoming more selective. Always move forward after things like this. Never reverse.


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Thanks! Yeah, it's definitely eye opening, being bi doesn't help my situation either. Now I have to choose if I want to pursue a male, female, either, or stay single as long as possible... so complicated!!!

Standards are good! :gj:
If you find a great person you like, firmly put out the standards, and they might be good for a long term relationship.
But I know nothing about love.

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Originally Posted by Royal Chick

Thanks! Yeah, it's definitely eye opening, being bi doesn't help my situation either. Now I have to choose if I want to pursue a male, female, either, or stay single as long as possible... so complicated!!!

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Curious, why exactly do you have to choose to pursue one or the other? If you are sexually attracted to either sex, it seems logical to let your emotional attraction do the deciding. Why pursue one or the other when another option is to let love happen with whatever gender the person you fall for happens to be, instead of limiting yourself to one sex at a time?

(and I am with you on punctuality, I cannot stand being remotely late. I haven't had a date much less a relationship but I've actually seen the guys make the girls late more often than the other way around)

The girl I'm seeing isn't a fan of my cats, and while it could be a dealbreaker in other situations, for the most part the cats are the ones getting in the way of our private time =P My girl's a cuddler, but my human friend is too, so they have a bit of a rivalry for best cuddle spot-- which puts me in the middle, lol.

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Originally Posted by Royal Chick

Oh NO!!! I am OCD about being on time and if I am not on time I am grumpy and immediately letting you know that I will be as close to on time as humanly possible lol but I don't typically wear makeup and I wear one pair of clothes a day. I dress nice, but don't overdo it because I just don't have the patience and love my sleep time waaaaay more than putting on makeup

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I know exactly what you mean. I hate being late. I strive to be as on time as possible. I don't usually wear makeup and when I do it takes me 10 minutes. I don't carefully choose my clothes either hahah.

What really bugs me is when people say they will be there "soon". What is that supposed to mean?? I always give my estimations in minutes!

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Originally Posted by Royal Chick

1) Needs to own snakes or reptiles and enjoy them as much as I do
Anyone see something I missed?

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Before even reading any responses...

Yea, change this one to: "Respects and supports my interests/hobbies."

I don't "need" a chick that loves reptiles or snakes. In fact, i'd almost prefer she has her own hobbies so that way we each have our own things we like. As long as she supports me, is willing to go to expos, sorta pretend to understand why I get so excited over stupid stuff lol, etc., then thats good enough for me.

I'm not the best with cars or the likes so I'm on the lookout for a mechanic. You know, like Michelle Rodriguez, in Fast and Furious.... :D

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Before even reading any responses...

Yea, change this one to: "Respects and supports my interests/hobbies."

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Yea, change this one to: "Adam Levine."

I don't "need" a guy that isn't Adam Levine. In fact, i'd almost prefer he was Adam Levine so that way I have things I like. As long as he supports me, is willing to go to expos, sorta pretend to understand why I get so excited over stupid stuff lol, etc., then Adam Levine is enough for me.