Thank you all for your input! I've posted in forums before (for all sorts of info, on lots of topics). This is by far the most respectful and informative. I've found that most members of these types of groups are more interested in chastising you for what you're doing wrong than helping you correct it. I will take disrespect from a good friend for about ten seconds. From a stranger on the internet....three, tops.
So thank you all for the help, and kudos (what a stupid word) for sharing your expertise rather than pointing at laughing at those of us who have a long way to go!