Some males are 'shy' and will lock only in the dead of night, and you'll find them separated but 'cuddling' in the morning.
If the male and female are on opposite sides of the bin, that's a sign that she isn't putting out the pheromones that interest him, yet.
Courting behaviors including following, scent marking (usually with a release of urates as well), the male crawling over the female, and laying with their tails side by side (but not locked).
They can make an absolute mess with the scent marking and urates. :P