ladies, i need some advice!

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Originally Posted by cecilbturtle

thank you for all the advice. SheenaCamp, im sorry about that date from hell but at least you have a really great story to tell ;)

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Hahah, it's cool. I meet a lot of weird people so, after everything was said and done (and I was in the safe house of my friends), I laughed about it.

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Originally Posted by youbeyouibei

LMAO! I'm sorry, I'm so NOT laughing at you, but W-O-W! Some people...and they walk amongst us, lol! Yeah, your date SUCKED!

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You wanna hear some MORE about that date?

Well, I'm a big girl (not chubby, but I'm fat) and there is a fetish out there where these men refer to themselves as "feedies." Well, these feedies have a fetish for watching overweight women eat food...and they get off on it. When this guy and I were at Olive Garden, he kept asking me if the salad was all I was going to have. I just said yes and didn't think anything of it. After the waitress took our plates and gave us the check, he asked if I wanted dessert. I told him I was fine and then he said "Are you sure? You know...I would really love to watch you eat a brownie smothered in ice cream..."

I just said "Oh, that's nice of you, but I am just so full..." Yeah....needless to say, it didn't work out. :gj:

LMAO, Sheena! I don't have words...! I'm sorry, truly I am, that you had that inflicted on you but your sense of humor and recounting of the situation are priceless! Hahahahahaha! I can't begin to imagine.. And "feedies"?! I've heard of "chubby chasers" but never of "feedies"...oh the things I've learned in the short while I've been on here...and some of it even has to do with snakes, lmao! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! :D

feedies? thats weird! well i guess meeting someone on a snake forum is weird too. maybe this girl wants to watch me clean some snake enclosures! nothing sexier than a guy wrist deep in snake poo :P

I met my boyfriend online (Facebook), though I had met him once before when I was 19 getting kicked out of his bar while I was on vacation. ;) Needless to say an embarassing situation as a teenager, and an awkward few months of online talking led to him flying all the way here to meet me and it's been wonderful ever since! I lucked out that he is from my hometown and knows much of my family and friends, so at least he wasn't exactly a stranger all together. Either way I would have took the risk to meet him, he makes me very happy.

Anyways, I wish you the best of luck, internet dating can be awkward but it's a wonderful way to find people!

Megs

This is such a cute thread:D. I love a lot of the posts.

I definitely see no wrong in talking to someone online and meeting someone that way. People think it's weird but it really doesn't matter what other people think.

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im not worried what other people think. i think its weird. but i gotta say its kind of nice. if i had done it right up till now i wouldnt be thinking about her. so maybe this is what i needed. i dont know... but i definitely wanna find out. not too sure what she wants yet...or expects.

why are you girls so damn complicated?

okay ladies, you gotta KNOW she is reading these. give her some advice! even if its not what i want. tell her what YOU think she should do.