first time feeding... what should i do????

Do the wiggle with the tongs. He is just stressed from being moved. I think it's better to feed in his enclosure. Try to blow dry it, or a hot water thing if it got cold, and wiggle it infront of him. If he doesn't get into strike, then leave it in there and leave the room. He might be shy the first time.

My male mojo is almost 1000 g's and still will not eat with me watching him. He's such a pain in the toush.

i lay the F/T on top of his cage and put the dome light over it (off of course) and let it thaw for as long as it takes . blast it with hair dryer and feed mine right in their cages . i found moving them disturbes their desire to eat