Re: What to do when you can't handle any more?
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Originally Posted by
stormwulf133
When it rains it pours. Well at least for me. I am not sure how I am going to get through all the crap that life is handing me. An unexpected kid, puts strain on an already strained relationship. Money strain makes that even worse. So I was dealing, just not well. Then a bunch more dumps right in my lap. The girlfriend then loses her job. They cut my hours. Can't get worse right?
My gf and I got several grand worth of stuff stolen out of her car. We lost a lot of our KC Renfest garb which isn't cheap. We work out there, so some of it is required. Its not like we can go down to the local kmart and get pirate boots. This we couldn't afford. So how does it get worse?
I am cleaning tubs today and notice that my het pied female I got from Adam about a year ago is wheezing a bit, the darned snake keeps tipper her bowl or sloshing all the water out no matter what I do. I suppose it got too wet, I have to clean her daily to make sure. RI? Seriously? Please God, anything but this. Financially we can't handle this right now. Too many things have hit us at once. Was this the end of things? OH no, of course not, one of our corns also looks as if it has an abnormal lump in her. I thought she had laid all her eggs, then batch two came even though we didn't breed her twice. All those eggs came out, so I thought, now this lump? Very close to her vent. Please let this be a poo...... So now I am going to have two vet bills, have to give injections to a snake that I don't know how to do..
Please God, when will this end? I consider myself a tough guy, but all of this at once has me ready to fold.
Oh did I mention the girlfriend's car is now having issues starting....
:please:
Soeey dude. I am in a similar situation. Just moved across country. LOVING it here.. but I am not sure at all how we are going to pay all of our bills next month; just hanging in there. Bankruptcy looms its ugly head. I hope that things get better for ya.
Re: What to do when you can't handle any more?
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Originally Posted by
BuddhaLuv
BTW, I am VERY intrigued that you and your girlfriend are/were pirates at the RenFest! That is the ultimate in cool!!! I like to tell people I have an abnormal obsession with pirates LOL. I even have a room dedicated to pirates:gj: I am so sorry that your attire was stolen!
Sending many prosperous wishes your way!
Yeah it really sucks, lol I am abnormally obsessed as well. Thanks btw
Re: What to do when you can't handle any more?
One day at a time. That's what I tell myself.
My friends house just got burglarized last Monday. They took alot of keep sakes, along with some very valuable stuff. Altogether I think they lost around 5-6 grand. It really sucks. Their daughter is thick into her terrible two's, and their older son is going through a phase where he does nothing but argue. I'm just glad I don't have kids.
I'm not religious in any way what-so-ever, so I try to think positive and take things one day at a time. It might draw things out, but I find it's easier.
