Ladies of Bp.Net, I need some help.

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Originally Posted by Jerhart

You'll be okay. Everyone goes through this process of heartbreak at least once in their life. My friends, family, and myself have all gone through heartbreak as have many who have posted in this thread...perhaps you have been through it already. You may question your decision now..."did I do the right thing?"...but later down the road, no questions will remain and you will be proud of yourself for the decision you have made. Good Luck.

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Totally. A month or two down the road and you will be saying to yourself "What was I thinking!" The best way is just cut off all contact and not get pulled into the drama. When you dont play the game its over. Not a easy thing but it gets you through it faster.

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Originally Posted by shescountry89

I feel absolutely retarded for coming on here, and asking what you think of this. But I am sitting here and none of my 'friends' are responding to my texts. So. here it goes.

Have you ever dated a guy, who told you he wanted you to be less indepedent? And that the only reason why you have so many animals, aka snakes is that since they are animals they will never leave you because everyone else does? My boyfriend of almost 2 months told me this last night, and I mearly(sp) told him that it was because I've been raised with animals, have a deep passion for them and its something I love and makes me happy.

I don't know how to respond to this, we've been dating less than 2 months and he wants me to move in with him already. But told me I am only allowed to have a certain amount of snakes. I took him to one reptile show, and I know for a fact he won't go back. He kind of makes fun of it. I really like this guy, for once I've found someone who really does care and for once doesn't treat me like garbage. But he doesn't accept the hobbies, and things I love.

I should be the happiest girl alive right now, but instead I feel crappy. And have no idea how to deal with this. So if you have experience, I need some help because I honestly don't know if I can handle another disapointment, if this doesn't work. I give up.

I'm used to having some space, but he wants me with him every waking minute. He doesn't like doing what I do, only wants me out drinking every night with his friends. It's taking a toll on me, I work a lot and i'm exhausted. Mentally and physically. I was raised to be an independant woman, and not to depend on people. It's like hes asking me to change myself.

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Not one of the ladies of BPnet nor did I read the whole thread just your post.

Kick this chump to the curb. Not sure how old you are, but if he is over 25 deff kick this chump to the curb.

My sound sage advice is kick this chump to the curb and if that doesn't work have a large male friend reiterate the fact that he isn't welcome and should find a life some where.

Mike

*Edit* Your 21? You shouldn't even be talking to the same guy 2 weeks in a row. Date and have fun */Edit*

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Originally Posted by hoax

Not one of the ladies of BPnet nor did I read the whole thread just your post.

Kick this chump to the curb. Not sure how old you are, but if he is over 25 deff kick this chump to the curb.

My sound sage advice is kick this chump to the curb and if that doesn't work have a large male friend reiterate the fact that he isn't welcome and should find a life some where.

Mike

*Edit* Your 21? You shouldn't even be talking to the same guy 2 weeks in a row. Date and have fun */Edit*

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Yes, I am 21. And if I could get more dates i'd go on them, I can just be really shy sometimes. I don't think I am going to be doing any dating for awhile after this.

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Originally Posted by shescountry89

Yes, I am 21. And if I could get more dates i'd go on them, I can just be really shy sometimes. I don't think I am going to be doing any dating for awhile after this.

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Don't worry about it, you'll feel better in no time. I did, and feeling better everyday! Like others have said already, learn to love your self first and the things you do. You have to find someone that loves you for you are, not what they want you to be.

I'm not dating anyone at the moment, but I haven't really been trying to date. Yes it gets lonely at times, but I'm sure you have family and friends to be there for you. I've stopped looking so hard for now, I'm sure she will show up eventually when I least expect it like people tell me. ;)

Don't let anyone hold you back, someone should be pushing you forward if that!

It's done and over with, i'm sitting here in tears :(:(:(

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Originally Posted by shescountry89

It's done and over with, i'm sitting here in tears :(:(:(

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Aww hang in there buddy!!! Everything will be okay! Just cuddle a snake :snake: :giggle:

PS: will you be at the next AAE? I need to get rats this time :P

Sooooo... He just wouldn't have it any other way but his, wouldn't talk about it or let you talk. Is that what happened? If so it's better this way. Honestly someone like that is not worth your time. My birthday is next week. Lets all get together & hang out!

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Originally Posted by Kaorte

Aww hang in there buddy!!! Everything will be okay! Just cuddle a snake :snake: :giggle:

PS: will you be at the next AAE? I need to get rats this time :P

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When is the next one? I should go.

I'm sorry it turned out that way, I wish your pain will go away sooner than later :please:

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Originally Posted by Foschi Exotic Serpents

When is the next one? I should go.

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May 16th!