Here you are...

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Originally Posted by littleindiangirl

Lol. How did I suddenly get in this so called "estrogen squad"? Oh, because I'm a woman, and I posted in this thread?! Lolz.

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Don't worry, truth of the matter is most the people posting in this thread are guys so we got you beat on Testosterone ;). Tell 'er Ed!

I've been nutered (most guys don't know that happens in the little room with the minister before the vows. Really what groomsmen are for is to hold the groom) so no more testostarone for me.. :D

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Originally Posted by Freakie_frog

The only reason I ask Pat is because I know for a fact that users can't see each others infractions..

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Thats BS. You can see a Red square on the post...thats ONE way to tell. You can also see under the users name if refractions have been received and how many points they are worth. That is the SECOND way to tell if someone has received infraction.

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Originally Posted by littleindiangirl

Oh, and trust me. I have recieved plenty of reprimanding and my own fair share of infractions. Lets not get our panties in a bunch Pat.

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I before E except after C...LOL

As far as my panties...its Tuesday lady panties are a Thursday thing

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Originally Posted by Freakie_frog

I've been nutered (most guys don't know that happens in the little room with the minister before the vows. Really what groomsmen are for is to hold the groom) so no more testostarone for me.. :D

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:rofl: Hahahahaha.

That must put Wes in the estrogen squad as well. Can't wait to hear his response on that. Is it ok to have good bear-baiting?

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Originally Posted by Patrick Long

Thats BS. You can see a Red square on the post...thats ONE way to tell. You can also see under the users name if refractions have been received and how many points they are worth. That is the SECOND way to tell if someone has received infraction.

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She has Infractions you know...

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Originally Posted by AaronP

She has Infractions you know...

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Actually I was informed that 1/0 = 1 warning, so patty she can PM you a screenshot or something of her infractions.

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Originally Posted by Patrick Long

Thats BS. You can see a Red square on the post...thats ONE way to tell. You can also see under the users name if refractions have been received and how many points they are worth. That is the SECOND way to tell if someone has received infraction.



I before E except after C...LOL

As far as my panties...its Tuesday lady panties are a Thursday thing

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Oh yes, my estrogen was getting in the way of my spelling. All apologies dear, lol.

I would like to know how we can go from a community that pulls together to help a fellow member after a tragedy to this type of community. It all makes me sick and completely ashamed.

I stay to the edges of this group- I am not a member of what some call the popular ones who some think control this group, nor am I on what is lately seen as "the other side" or an @ss kisser. I come here to learn, to share what small amount of knowledge I have and to talk to people who understand my addiction. I try my darnest to stay out of hot button issues and to respect others.

But...I have to say this. If you don't like how things are run and hate this place that much, please LEAVE! Threads like this are wrong on so many levels. I can only imagine being a new person to this site.

I don't always agree with the management team but for the most part, they do a great job with a site of this size. I would like to see some of you who are complaining (and tend to start issues alot more than other members- I think you guys just like to cause problems but that is just my opinion) try to do a better job.

Quite frankly, most people are making complete idiots of themselves with these threads.

To the left just a bit is another opinion on this....stuff.

It comes up from time to time on all forums. Several have mentioned it in this thread. It's part of community growth.

What the staff does with this situation, and it's not unique either now or here, is what determines whether a site lives or dies.

Other than me, and I'm not really, no one is perfect.

Pat, who's a good guy with a good brain, even if it is in the jar more often than not, has an opinion about staff. To him, it's valid. Staff, or those who have posted an opinion, differ with him.

But, unless I've missed something, he's still here, still welcome here, still a member of this community. I can see his point, understand how he arrived there, I just don't happen to agree with him THIS time. Uh oh, maybe we're not friends anymore. (yeah, some of this thread is that stupid)

Guys, as much as it's real, it's not real life, it isn't life or death.

Both ashley and her boyfriend were asking for what they got.

Teased and questioned with barbed humor.

Yes, wounded unto death by it, the both of them were.

That's why they kept coming back.

Let's talk about fair for a minute here.

Some of you keep throwing out that this is the fairest site on the net. WHO has said that? I don't see any BPnet bumper stickers making this claim. I have yet to see cotton covered rubber melons proclaiming that the fairest of them all is BPnet. It's not on anyone's signature that I've seen.

So, where is this statement coming from?

I'll say this, BPnet is one of THE fairest. Don't know about #1 for all around equality, but they're in the top few.

What is WRONG WITH THAT? That's pretty damn good, to be at the top, even really close to it is fine.

So, complain, explain, disdain, refrain and sustain but, before you go slamming yourself in the ass with a door, consider this; why are you here?

No one has claimed perfection. In fact, I've seen the exact opposite.

If no one has claimed a thing is to be found here, then those of you pissing and moaning about not finding what isn't here really need to have another look at your goal and see if you're on the road to its acquisition or caught in a cul-de-sac, swirling endlessly and for no good reason.

Thats it, WE ARE NOT FRIENDS!