Ladies of Bp.Net, I need some help.

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Originally Posted by Danounet

Well I think you know what his priorities are. It doesn't look to me like you are very high up there... Sorry =/

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she doesnt have to worry shes high up on ours...:taz::taz::taz::taz::D

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Originally Posted by shescountry89

Of course, he's out drinking with his friends.

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Oh psshh.. I was going to go on about how, contrary to popular belief, people can change. But if he is out drinking with friends then !@#$%^ dump him!

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Originally Posted by ColdBloodedCarnival

Oh psshh.. I was going to go on about how, contrary to popular belief, people can change. But if he is out drinking with friends then !@#$%^ dump him!

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Ya funny me too... Then I read that.

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Originally Posted by Danounet

Ya funny me too... Then I read that.

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hate to say it but like i said find a new manssssssssssss :gj:

Yeah, he really isn't dealing with it in a way that makes things better in our situation. Drinking doesn't solve anything, I would know.

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Originally Posted by shescountry89

Yeah, he really isn't dealing with it in a way that makes things better in our situation. Drinking doesn't solve anything, I would know.

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The best way to end it is quick and clean. Get you and your things out of this situation. This is how an abusive relationship starts. I've been there and it stinks. It starts with you compromising for someone you think is perfect. Then soon enough you aren't allowed to hang out with your friends. He wants your life to revolve around him and only him. I've been there, and I promise you it only gets harder to leave. You deserve someone who loves every aspect of you and takes a lot of interest into your hobbies. Don't compromise your happiness for ANYONE! You will find someone who digs you and everything you love. Now that he is drinking, I'd try to cut all lines of communication before shtick hits the fan. I know its hard but it WILL be better for you in the long run, I promise!

-Amanda

run run like hell and don't look back dude has some serious control issues. hope you do the right thing for yourself i used to be the same way but some how have changed for the better it's due to my wife that this change has come about .

I'm doing my best, not easy at all at the moment.

Speaking from experience honey, they ALWAYS say, " I'm sorry, I didn't mean it, baby I'll change, please don't leave me."

When what they mean is, "I have no intention of changing, but I love playing you and making you feel guilty, I get off on it. Besides, if your stupid enough to fall for it, that just proves what I knew, you are worthless without me and I can do whatever I want to you."

He's NOT sorry, he WON'T change, he DID SO mean it, and if you leave, who will he have left to treat like dirt so he can feel good.

Go into your bathroom, look in the mirror, look yourself RIGHT in the eyes and repeat after me, " I am NOT worthless, I DESERVE someone better, I DON'T need this creep, I will NOT let him run my life!"

Do this four times a day until you believe it.

Gale