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  • 10-25-2008, 12:32 AM
    dsirkle
    Looking for feedback
    Mods please relocate this thread if I have chosen the wrong forum. I have so far refrained from thanking any member for a making given post ever since the option to do so has been there because I can imagine this function ending up having the unintended result of the formation of opposing cliques. So far a substantial portion of the "thanks" has been given to posters that are giving an opinion on a contested topic. If somebody doesn't like the post or the poster or the people doing the thanking, they may harbor a grievance toward the whole group. I haven't wanted to stigmatize anyone by adding my name to their post. I'm sure that this feature will remain on the site, I just wanted to get some input from the other members. I'm sure that most people would say that I am either being silly or overly cautious, but in my short time participating in online forums I believe that I have noticed certain trends of behavior. What is your opinion?
  • 10-25-2008, 12:36 AM
    Patrick Long
    Re: Looking for feedback
    Oh I never really thought of it like that......


    ....genius Dale, genius
  • 10-25-2008, 01:06 AM
    wilomn
    Re: Looking for feedback
    Absolutely correct.

    Kinda funny too to see the lines being drawn, I'm on his side and you're not so you must be against me kinda things.
  • 10-25-2008, 01:07 AM
    West Coast Jungle
    Re: Looking for feedback
    I guess a contested post or thread is always prone to this possibility, but most of the threads and posts are not really of that nature.

    I think it depends on the topic in question and which threads you spend your attention on as to how often this becomes a possibility.

    Like reputations you dont have to use this feature if you feel it maybe miscontrued.

    I actually havent used it alot but if I feel someone was informative or shed some light on a situation I may give them a thanks for sharing.
  • 10-25-2008, 01:11 AM
    Adam_Wysocki
    Re: Looking for feedback
    screw "cliques" ... they're garbage ... I say be your own person ... if you like a post, or learn something for a post, or if a post just makes you smile ... give it a :gj: "Thanks" ... If someone has a problem with that, tell em to "clique this". ;)

    oh, and BTW ... I'm in a "clique" ... I'm in the me, myself, and I "clique" ... and my "clique" can kick it's own butt! :banana: :rofl:

    Just my worthless $.02

    -adam
  • 10-25-2008, 01:28 AM
    Sputnik
    Re: Looking for feedback
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Adam_Wysocki View Post
    screw "cliques" ... they're garbage ... I say be your own person ... if you like a post, or learn something for a post, or if a post just makes you smile ... give it a :gj: "Thanks" ... If someone has a problem with that, tell em to "clique this". ;)
    -adam

    I agree, sometimes it's used as nothing more then a form of recognition without actually posting. If you like it and wanna hit the thanks, hit it, if someone has a problem with people doing that..... well that's their problem! :)
  • 10-27-2008, 03:44 AM
    dsirkle
    Re: Looking for feedback
    Well I guess that when this feature suddenly appeared the concept puzzled me a bit and I have been over thinking the situation.
  • 10-27-2008, 03:03 PM
    Muze
    Re: Looking for feedback
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Adam_Wysocki View Post
    screw "cliques" ... they're garbage ... I say be your own person ... if you like a post, or learn something for a post, or if a post just makes you smile ... give it a :gj: "Thanks" ... If someone has a problem with that, tell em to "clique this". ;)

    oh, and BTW ... I'm in a "clique" ... I'm in the me, myself, and I "clique" ... and my "clique" can kick it's own butt! :banana: :rofl:

    Just my worthless $.02

    -adam

    Darn! You took the words right outta my mouth (or keyboard). Right on!!! :gj:
  • 10-27-2008, 04:43 PM
    SlitherinSisters
    Re: Looking for feedback
    Sorry I just had to do it :rofl:

    I didn't think about the "thanking" business in that way at all, but I see what you're saying. I have been using it mostly for when people gave me advice. I'm new to BPs and it's nice when you get a post that actually helps you. I've noticed some posts are their way or the highway :rolleyes:


    I was also wondering, do we get some sort of prize for having a bunch of "thanks" :rofl: JK
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