last week single

well we had the bachlor party on saturday and im still feeling the effects, 5 gallons of jungle juice will do that to you. i had a blast at my party and she did at hers. i want to know ( being i only have 4 days to back out LOL, JP), i have been with her for almost 4 years and we have lived together for 3 of those, what changes? will i say i do and all of a sudden she freak out and become some controling phyco? did anything change with the relationship that any of you had? not having second thoughts just want to know what to look forward to.

nothing changes, what you feel inside should be the same. with or without legal papers.


the words, "i want half" should strike a little more fear now though.:D


vaughn

awe crap i didnt think about that LOL wait she makes more HECK YEAH. yeah i told her nothing will change except i will have a ring that will never come off and her last name...thanks Kavmon

If it hasn't changed in four years, 3 living together, then it wont now. saying I do just lets the world hear you say your committed to each other. its natural to be nervous, but dont let that deter you. just look forward to your future together.

thanks ladydragon

IMHO, there is going to be a big change. I don't believe in divorce because a marriage is supposed to be eternal. After vows, its the long haul with no option to break up. However most people don't take marriage as serious as I do anymore. Sad how the world changes.

i found things changed dramatically for us. having that commitment, knowing the person you are with wants to REALLY be with you forever gives you a sense of 'relaxed bliss' that i've never felt before in my life.

trusting my new hubby would forever have my back, forever be there to care for me when i need him, forever be there to laugh at my jokes, forever be there to love me...

and knowing in my heart that i'm ready willing and able to be all those things to him... makes a HUGE wonderful blissful change.

so ya, things are going to change... :hug:

by the way... we are coming up on our 9th anniversary in a few days... and we love each other... deeper than ever. so... it gets better with time!

just run Nick!!!

get out of Dodge ASAP!!!

ahahhaaaaa...you know I am kidding.

yea things change...but doesn't life?

I wish you and your lady all the best!

:hug:

Now RUN!!!

:bolt:

thanks all, hoping she doesnt turn out like my soon to be monster in law...for all those that are good at genetics whats the chance HAHA. she already had her bridal portaits that i cant see but i will post many pictures soon after the wedding.

Congratulations on the upcoming wedding!!! I think that in the day to day of it things won't be a whole lot different, especially since ya'll have been living together for 3 yrs. My husband and I had lived together for about a year and a half before we got married, we just celebrated our 5th yr anniv., and yeah we have our ups and downs, but that is what marriage is all about. You get through those times Together and you become closer and stronger because of it. We don't always agree, but at the end of the day I know that he is ultimately there for me, is my lifelong partner, and my very best friend. And that's what I look forward to everyday.