I've a Spider and a Pastel hatchling that were sold to me as "unsexed". Just ordered my first probing kit but I went ahead and popped both. Not seeing hemipenes sticking out though i see two red marks. I've a male lesser that I've popped which was obviously male and another female which didn't have those red marks. Have you guys seen the red marks on female BPs before? Popped a few times and I still can't see anything sticking out!